PART TWO: Why Shakira Doesn’t Want to Get Married

  • Published: 11 January 2020
  • Real fam, what do you think of Shakira choosing not to marry her longtime partner?
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  • Teddy Reid
    Teddy Reid  4 hours back


    • with Nalijah
      with Nalijah  13 hours back

      Society really normalizes fornication and adultery

      • tita87jel
        tita87jel  19 hours back

        I agree with Adrienne

        • GabriellaGlamour
          GabriellaGlamour  1 days back

          I mean, telling him you're NEVER GETTING MARRIED, is pretty much the same as getting married. lol but ok

          • Brianna Imani
            Brianna Imani  1 days back

            I think marriage has really fallen short of the biblical meaning of the word. Biblically speaking, marriage is a covenant between man, woman, and God. So technically if y'all keep God first, have kids, live together, and consider each other life-partners, in the eyes of God, you are married. Going through the wedding ceremony and getting the certificate is really for other people to see and recognize it for what it is and to celebrate your bond.

            • Viankah James
              Viankah James  2 days back

              She prob doesn’t want to married bc divorce is a possibility down the road and she needs to protect her $$$.
              With mindsets and perspectives like this - marriages tend to fail bc it’s like predetermined.
              And bc people don’t value the Bible or whatever - it’s really irrelevant bc it’s not a belief for them.
              The biblical scriptures are there for the ones who are open to the word and want to abide by it.
              Bc the government is involved in ya life regardless.
              Life of what you make of it.

              • Happily Ever After
                Happily Ever After  2 days back

                And just like that, the seating arrangement suddenly makes more sense to me. I enjoyed the different perspectives of this conversation.

                • Covye Hayden
                  Covye Hayden  2 days back

                  Tamara mowry, !! Thank you u always give the best mature. Advice about just being a better adult when getting older. I understand everyone’s POV at the table. But everything is what we make traditional just pave the way let’s be righteous and good to one another it will always wrk out

                  • Evanescent Euphoria
                    Evanescent Euphoria  2 days back

                    Common law is recognized with or without children.

                    • Alexandria Taylor
                      Alexandria Taylor  2 days back

                      But The Lord Says...

                      • Sacha6100
                        Sacha6100  2 days back

                        thank you jeannie

                        • Alison Hall
                          Alison Hall  3 days back

                          I get what people say about marriage. but aint no way am doing all of that without marriage. AINT NO BUYING A HOUSE TOGETHER AND PLAYING HOUSE WITH NO REAL POWER, SORRY. NOT ABOUT TO HAPPEN. I am NOT commenting and dedicating my life without some sort of legal protection. LIKE IT OR NOT, THERE IS THINGS A WIFE CAN DO AND NOT, A GIRLFRIEND OR BABY MOTHER.

                          • Gisela Machado
                            Gisela Machado  3 days back

                            Shakira is an aquarius, that's why😏...

                            • Argely Castillo
                              Argely Castillo  3 days back

                              A commitment is a commitment as as long as it’s a commitment
                              -Loni Love

                              • Imelda W.M
                                Imelda W.M  3 days back

                                But in Africa marriage is the goal

                                • Faith Walks
                                  Faith Walks  3 days back

                                  You don’t want the government in your situation but you have a social security number! Man get outta here. If you don’t want to get married then great! If you want to get married great! Don’t tear down marriage by making derogatory comments like “if you need a piece of paper to solidify commitment y’all have a problem.” I don’t need papers for that. Now if you do that’s an issue. I appreciate the sanctity of marriage, but I also have the respect and decency not to dog people out who don’t want that for their lives. I felt like marriage was under attack in this segment. Marriage is what you make it. I’m still girlfriend and lover, but if you don’t want to be married go you. My husband doesn’t need the threat of me leaving to keep him on his toes tho.

                                  • JILLIANCP12
                                    JILLIANCP12  3 days back

                                    I honestly get it, if some people ever want out of a relationship, they don’t have to go through the headache of a divorce with lawyers, dividing assets, alimony, and child support that can be dragged for months. Not to mention fighting over who gets the house, car, etc. It’s incredibly simple to just break up if you’re dating, especially when you don’t share ownership of any assets together. Obviously, kids make it a bit messier, but in the grand scheme of things this way of life is much easier. But I do also understand the value of marriage and respect it, even if it is a bit idealistic.

                                    • E B
                                      E B  4 days back

                                      Jeannie sounds like she went rogue. I am sensing a spirit of bitterness in her...🤔

                                      • Josephine Idowu
                                        Josephine Idowu  4 days back

                                        I agree with the fact that women should not be pressured into getting married and all but when babies are popping out from one man then I think it’s better to be married if you are a Christian.

                                        • The Animoji Show
                                          The Animoji Show  4 days back

                                          Nah, marriage is a covenant between the wife, God and the husband. Marriage is not a commitment and not a contract and it can only be disolved under very few circumstances. So no, I do not agree with this ideology.

                                          • Jenae Nichelle
                                            Jenae Nichelle  4 days back

                                            Jeanine Tamara & Adrienne are Christians. Marriage is a part of the Christian religion.

                                            • Valeri
                                              Valeri  4 days back

                                              why is jeanie so dark now? 🤔

                                              • RickiiTensee
                                                RickiiTensee  5 days back

                                                “A commitment is a commitment as long as it’s a commitment” - Loni Luv 2020....

                                                • jazzy tootoo
                                                  jazzy tootoo  5 days back

                                                  It's about MONEY! All that bull about marriage is just dumb!!

                                                  • Ladyofleisure
                                                    Ladyofleisure  5 days back

                                                    I don't believe a woman doesn't want to get married (to her partner) unless and until he *proposes* to her and she refuses. Until then it's all talk.

                                                    • Brandi Dupree
                                                      Brandi Dupree  6 days back

                                                      Who says if you aren't married you aren't a woman???

                                                      • Emokiriemi Abednego
                                                        Emokiriemi Abednego  6 days back

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                                                        • Lexy Martin
                                                          Lexy Martin  6 days back

                                                          Tell em ade!

                                                          • Miss Dori Lynn
                                                            Miss Dori Lynn  6 days back

                                                            Yeah, I hear what they're saying, but there are benefits to being married. I understand that she doesn't want the government in her relationship, but you will when someone is in the hospital and the other can't make medical decisions because you don't have a legal marriage. Or when you can't get his pension after being with him for 30 years. But I feel like Shakira's reasons are strictly financial

                                                            • Christian Lady
                                                              Christian Lady  6 days back

                                                              Liberals. Oh mine.

                                                              • Lone Star 89
                                                                Lone Star 89  6 days back

                                                                If a mf’er asks me when I’m getting married and/or having kids I’ll tell them, “When you give me the money to pay for it”.

                                                                In other words, stay tf out of my business. My life is my own and that who I live it for. It’s not a resource for someone else to manage. I really feel sorry for these women who don’t have enough backbone to stand up for themselves against these archaic expectations.

                                                                • Kevin Ortega-Rojas
                                                                  Kevin Ortega-Rojas  6 days back

                                                                  The thing Adrienne is forgetting when she says ‘don’t let society decide what marriage is’ .... marriage is a construction created by society and religion .... which is Amanda’s point also. Marriage wasn’t a romantic thing (in its conception at least)

                                                                  • yyoo1294
                                                                    yyoo1294  4 days back

                                                                    Was never meant to be rooted in love indeed

                                                                • soleebsa
                                                                  soleebsa  6 days back

                                                                  I don’t get what the stigma is. Married or not, if it is not for you, it is not for you. There’s nothing wrong with being married. It gives you rights, funny people will sign for materialistic things but not the human being they supposedly are in love with. Shakiras logic doesn’t make sense. Her boyfriend impregnated her twice, like they are bonded for life, if she is worried he will somehow lose interest if they get married, he ain’t the one for you!! In Gods eyes that is her husband. This show is not REAL, this is is just usual modern day feminist liberal opinions the media wants to force on everyone. Tamera and Adrienne, it’s so obvious you wanted to defend the sanctity of marriage, you are two Christian women, you should of been REAL. We all know how you really feel.

                                                                  • Alex C.
                                                                    Alex C.  7 days back

                                                                    Marriage is a business contract involving the state. It’s a raw deal especially for men. 45 pct of first marriages fail. 2nd marriages have a 65 percent failure rate and it goes up from there. Most of the ones that remain aren’t truly happy and only remain due to children, finances, or societal pressure. Knowing this why do we even bother with it anymore?

                                                                    • Neena Harris
                                                                      Neena Harris  7 days back

                                                                      In my opinion why date if your goal isn’t to be in a long term commitment with a symbolism of marriage. Also I’m my opinion I think it’s not ok for a woman and man to just live together and date eachother and not wanna gets married in the future because they are not the marrying type.

                                                                      • Sherry Hassanali
                                                                        Sherry Hassanali  7 days back

                                                                        LOVE Jeannie's look!

                                                                        • Belle smith
                                                                          Belle smith  7 days back

                                                                          I dunno my take on it is I can sleep with your man if their no ring on it. All is fair in love and war. No commitment 😝

                                                                          • HamptonDoll
                                                                            HamptonDoll  7 days back

                                                                            I completely agree with Adrian. I believe this is a fear-based decision on her part.

                                                                            • maja zelenovic
                                                                              maja zelenovic  1 weeks back

                                                                              I think ofc it’s a choice if u get married great if it’s not for u. Also great. I think a reason some don’t want to get married is all the compilations and legalities of divorce. You never know what could happen with a person or relationship in 10-20 years so it’s nice to know u can just up and leave if u want whereas divorce is a bit more complicated

                                                                              • Shirley Anderson
                                                                                Shirley Anderson  1 weeks back

                                                                                Oprah and stedman

                                                                                • A Jae
                                                                                  A Jae  1 weeks back

                                                                                  Tams hair looks great

                                                                                  • Lali Almendariz
                                                                                    Lali Almendariz  1 weeks back

                                                                                    I get why Shakira doesn't want to get married. We do live in a different era.Women do have more options and are more independent. It all depends on the couple, some people get lucky some don't. It takes two people to make your marriage flourish. I got blessed that my husband and I worked so hard in keeping a covenant with the help of the Lord Jesus Christ.

                                                                                    • wendy Chavez
                                                                                      wendy Chavez  1 weeks back

                                                                                      You too scared to marry your bf but you your not scared to birth two kids by him???.. the world is truly backwards. Having children is already for life girl.

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                                                                                        • Levi 123
                                                                                          Levi 123  1 weeks back

                                                                                          Marriage is just a label 🏷 that’s the moral of the story book 📖.

                                                                                          • Benxx
                                                                                            Benxx  1 weeks back

                                                                                            I don’t think it has anything to do with money - prenuptial/postnuptial agreements are a thing that can protect her. I think Adrienne may be headed into the right direction of Shakira not wanting to succumb to the definition of marriage society has already agreed upon. With that being said, I really have to disagree with Amanda, whole-heartedly, about marriage essentially being a piece of paper and the government getting all in your business. That piece of paper will decide who makes life and death decisions when your partner is lying in a hospital bed (or who will make decisions for you if you’re lying in that bed) and will also decide where y’all’s assets will go in the event that one of y’all pass and there’s no will. No, marriage shouldn’t be something required out of love, but I think people should consider it out of logic.

                                                                                            • john patterson
                                                                                              john patterson  1 weeks back

                                                                                              Shakira Estoy Aqui video Shakira is wearing a wedding ring .
                                                                                              Shakira say's she is forbidden fruit for pique

                                                                                              • jagir
                                                                                                jagir  1 weeks back

                                                                                                0:04 AMEN 🙏🏽 CHOOSE to be with someone EVERYDAY, not by force / contract