3 Tips to a Better Long Distance Relationship (How to Survive LDR's)

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Comments • 360

  • Nihal Hathaway
    Nihal Hathaway  2 days back

    that's amazing, I bet you are a great ldr partner. Many men are just really frustrated during the ld part and are not that creative... xD

    • Hs8shsub Jsishejw
      Hs8shsub Jsishejw  1 weeks back

      She very luckybecuse you not the scermer l finis is all scermer 😔

      • Casais Marites
        Casais Marites  2 weeks back

        LDR. is so much stressfull sometimes. Like me and my bf. If you dont have trust to each other and no time cummunicate the relationship coudnt work

        • Donna Tyler
          Donna Tyler  3 weeks back

          Communication is key. I find ldr tough but in one

          • Al Art
            Al Art  4 weeks back

            Me and bf watched a movie once together, I was watching him the whole time🤣

            We don't do dates but we Facetime all the time 💕

            • Alam Himel BADIUL
              Alam Himel BADIUL  1 months back

              Actually I did the movie thing with my girlfriend before seeing this video.

              • Mmesomachi Emekom
                Mmesomachi Emekom  1 months back

                I'm in a long distance relationship, so tell me how do I make my man to be on his mind?

                • Maryfavour Anjong
                  Maryfavour Anjong  1 months back

                  I'm in a ldr, I loved my guy so much and he on his part loves me.he always create time to talk to me but at time I still fell insecure.pls I need how to build trust for hm

                  • 空白
                    空白  1 months back

                    I just started talking to a guy long distance and we both know we are still just getting to know each other but so far we are both always fluttered and happy about getting to hear each other's voice after a long or couple busy days. I wonder if we'd somehow get to take things to the next level until we finally meet. I wonder if he'd surprise me something like you had done to your woman. ❤️

                    • L M
                      L M  1 months back

                      Dude that last surprise made ME cry!! That’s the sweetest surprise
                      Good job!!

                      • rose mcelwain
                        rose mcelwain  2 months back

                        Hi mat I'm in a long distance relationship he's from the US and I'm from Ireland how do I keep it going he say that he is very interested in me I am very interested in him and would like it to work out he said that he will try to come to visit me soon if he didn't come soon e would try to come for Christmas

                        • Zaeda ViVar
                          Zaeda ViVar  2 months back

                          Even a ldr i dont have,,what poor lovelife of mine😔

                          • Kelli R. Morris
                            Kelli R. Morris  2 months back

                            Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his text without touching it. I’m here in Australia and able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.

                            • Entertainment Channel
                              Entertainment Channel  2 months back

                              You have a long distance relationship, that is ok. With the sex toy kit for ldr of lovense. See this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hET0YDdGnrA&449

                              • siddiki
                                siddiki  2 months back

                                You have a long distance relationship, that is ok. With the couple ldr sex toys of lovense. See this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpOjZjFlN_E&374

                                • Kelli R. Morris
                                  Kelli R. Morris  2 months back

                                  Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his text without touching it. I’m here in Australia and able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.

                              • RAFAELA CARLINA
                                RAFAELA CARLINA  2 months back

                                I swear never ever will Watch this kind of videos.. but your channel is amazing, wow you are good with the advices!! Precise love it! Thanks 🙏❤

                                • JUDY'S - FOREIGNER'S GoAL

                                  Thankz for sharing ,I have alots of learning from you about long distance relationship 🤩🤩

                                  • Kelli R. Morris
                                    Kelli R. Morris  2 months back

                                    Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his text without touching it. I’m here in Australia and able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.

                                • twinny tinny
                                  twinny tinny  2 months back

                                  My bf was in camping for 3days but when i called him he didn't answer me. Its like a question in my mind, why he cant talk to me?

                                  • Cathie Phillips
                                    Cathie Phillips  2 months back

                                    Been thr for 7yrs ne he does only wat he wants

                                • L and M
                                  L and M  2 months back

                                  Wow you are such a very sweet man. Your wife is very lucky to have you. Communication and connection are very important I believe so

                                  • Bhavna Rasaily
                                    Bhavna Rasaily  3 months back

                                    OMFG 😭😭 Number 3 got me bad af

                                    • scienceis fun
                                      scienceis fun  3 months back

                                      What if both are poor while in a long distance relationship, the surprise part entails money, we both can't afford it. Only one of us has a job and the one who has work is supporting financially both parents and at the same time sending money to the partner since he has no job. Please help

                                      • Ethena Black
                                        Ethena Black  4 months back

                                        I need advice because I got asked out but I’ve never had a long distance relationship. I really love the person but he lives In America and I live in UK

                                        • Kelli R. Morris
                                          Kelli R. Morris  2 months back

                                          Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his text without touching it. I’m here in Australia and able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.

                                      • Hawa Mancho
                                        Hawa Mancho  5 months back

                                        Thanks I like its

                                        • Vivian Appiah
                                          Vivian Appiah  5 months back

                                          Please my guy birthday is coming up how can l surprise him.. Am not with him..

                                          • Kelli R. Morris
                                            Kelli R. Morris  2 months back

                                            Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his text without touching it. I’m here in Australia and able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.

                                        • Vivian Appiah
                                          Vivian Appiah  5 months back

                                          Thanks you very much.. This will help me bcoz am on long distance relationships too

                                          • Flamez Cosmonaut
                                            Flamez Cosmonaut  5 months back

                                            As of July 5th, 2019, it was me and my girlfriend’s first anniversary. LDR may seem hard, especially the fact that you might not be able to see that person for a very long time. If you really love that person, having an argument should not last for days, as it’s not really true love. You have to be motivated- don’t let someone or some people say that your ldr is pointless, because it’s your life story, your life. Be Dedicated, enjoy every single moments you have together, do things that’ll make your partner always remember those beautiful moments. And most importantly, love that person. Like, really love that person, so so much. If you follow all of these steps, including Mathew’s steps, you shall have the relationship last as long as you need. I wish you all the greatest luck and God Bless you all.

                                            • Haidz Concepcion
                                              Haidz Concepcion  6 months back

                                              Im crying dude,while listening ur valentines story😥😥

                                              • Rosie Marie
                                                Rosie Marie  6 months back

                                                Matt, I am in a very long distance relationship. It has become awesome. When we both recognized the mural attraction and connection...we bloomed. 1) What we do is stay consistent as you mentioned in messaging one another. 2) We talk always each about how much we are excited to see each other soon. He says, " I am counting the seconds."
                                                3.) We constantly confirm our plans together when we get to see each other. So the goal is by Christmas, so we can have a sesonally romantic Christmas.
                                                These 3 actions help us continually grow closer.
                                                I really loved your date night Idea. His birthday is next month. That would be a wonderful date night. But a weekly one sounds even more bonding. I love it❤️❤️ thank you.

                                                • Kelli R. Morris
                                                  Kelli R. Morris  2 months back

                                                  Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his text without touching it. I’m here in Australia and able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.

                                              • Cathy Mejia
                                                Cathy Mejia  6 months back

                                                You made me cry..😭

                                                • Anabnul islam
                                                  Anabnul islam  6 months back

                                                  A you guy 😉👊 fantastic

                                                  • Friendship Tree
                                                    Friendship Tree  6 months back

                                                    Yep. I definitely spent 2 years (long ago) choosing men who could not be local. It was a way of avoiding rejection.

                                                    • Kelli R. Morris
                                                      Kelli R. Morris  2 months back

                                                      Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his text without touching it. I’m here in Australia and able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.

                                                  • Joy GloriousSweet
                                                    Joy GloriousSweet  7 months back

                                                    I'm inspired.

                                                    • Kelli R. Morris
                                                      Kelli R. Morris  2 months back

                                                      Smartness is essential in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my 6 years husband cheating through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his text without touching it. I’m here in Australia and able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK. Contact this Genius-Tracker via Gmail (geniustracker701) Text and speak to him directly on phone +1 (415) 323-6758. or Via WhatsApp him +1 (724) 330-3252. Thank me later.

                                                  • July M
                                                    July M  7 months back

                                                    We play pubg together kkk

                                                    • Sarah Richie
                                                      Sarah Richie  7 months back

                                                      I’m in a long distance relationship and we live 5 hours from each other but I haven’t seen him even once and I’m wondering if I should stay in the relationship idk jc

                                                      • acer computer
                                                        acer computer  7 months back

                                                        Wow, this is priceless information coming from you. Thank you so much for this. I'll surely be doing this starting from now cause this is what we are right now, miles and miles apart.

                                                        Thanks 👌

                                                        • Jashmine Luke
                                                          Jashmine Luke  7 months back

                                                          Wow 😘 but not all guys are desame 😢

                                                          • Kathy Parker
                                                            Kathy Parker  7 months back

                                                            I lost contact with a love 47 years ago. We ran in to each other in 1989 but he was married at the time. Lost touch again until Valentine's Day this year. I found him on Facebook and sent him a message. We have both been married 4 times up to this point and we are now both single. He is living in Arkansas and I in California. Since 2/15/19 we have talked every day either via text or telephone. He wanted to fly me to Arkansas this summer for 2 weeks to see if it could work with us. After 2 months of talking he, all of a sudden, cancelled all of it. He told me he wanted to remain friends but did not want to live with another woman. He said if I lived in Arkansas he would love to be my boyfriend, date, spend weekends together and go on trips. I am in no position to move to Arkansas for a "date". I have been in love with this man for 47 years. He still sends me texts and calls me occasionally. I am 71 years old and he is 72 years old. I am devastated at the thought of losing him again. A lot was said in the last 2 months and now nothing of importance. Any suggestions.

                                                            • Liz Nel
                                                              Liz Nel  8 months back

                                                              A reminder that most definitely I have been settling for crumbs! 🤦🏻‍♀️ 😂

                                                              • Jhana Harris
                                                                Jhana Harris  8 months back

                                                                First 55 seconds are golden.

                                                                • Zhel Ezee
                                                                  Zhel Ezee  9 months back

                                                                  i love you Matt! :)

                                                                  • Nabaliika Zaamu
                                                                    Nabaliika Zaamu  9 months back

                                                                    thx so much

                                                                    • Tunny Wisner
                                                                      Tunny Wisner  9 months back

                                                                      I'm trying to build a long distance relationship but i'm facing a problems till now music friend is going away from me, i need your help

                                                                      • Patricia Young
                                                                        Patricia Young  9 months back

                                                                        great tips. Thank you !

                                                                        • trudy hudgens
                                                                          trudy hudgens  9 months back

                                                                          Thnx xo much

                                                                          • laurie329808
                                                                            laurie329808  9 months back

                                                                            While I was in an LDR with my last boyfriend, it was because initially (while he lived in Hawaii at the time, as I do, we lived on different islands)...he eventually moved to Texas, but I could afford to move (at that time) & go with him.

                                                                            He (my ex) eventually broke the relationship off, which (strange as it sounds) didn't bug me in the least (that he broke it off).

                                                                            The only thing that DID bug me was the WAY he broke it off. He chose to be a coward and had a mutual friend of ours give me the message, and I was told that it's because he's scared of me. 🤣😂

                                                                            But it's all good, cause while we were together for 9 years (he broke it off in February 2017 just before Valentine's Day).

                                                                            I had already met a guy (via Facebook) who would eventually end up being my current boyfriend (& soon to be fiancé).

                                                                            My current boyfriend & I are also in an LDR, but the difference this time (other than the fact that I still live in Hawaii, & he's in Pennsylvania) is the fact that he's not only older than me (my now Texas ex was younger than me), but he's also WAY more mature. My (Texas) ex couldn't handle the distance (while I could).

                                                                            That being said, my current boyfriend & I met originally via a Facebook Hydrocephalus group (as we both have the condition, along with us both having Epilepsy, & a bunch of other medical conditions).

                                                                            I probably won't be able to move out there to Pennsylvania (I'd be moving in with him & his mom) until after we get married, & we'll stay put (at my mother in law's house) until we have enough saved up to move out on our own (after we find a place).

                                                                            Right now, it's only him & his mom at home, as his 3 sisters have all married & moved out, and my (future) father in law passed away in June 2015.

                                                                            My man & I have known each other since late 2014, & became Facebook friends in January 2015. We'll be celebrating our first year (as a couple) on August 7, 2019, and we're both hoping that he'll be here to visit me in early August (& he'll be here for nearly a month), for our anniversary (August 7th), his 40th birthday (August 13th), & my mom's birthday (August 23rd) before he heads back to PA on August 25th or so 😁

                                                                            • • FBI AGENT •
                                                                              • FBI AGENT •  8 months back

                                                                              I hope your relationship with him stays strong. All the best!

                                                                          • Jarod Tadgell
                                                                            Jarod Tadgell  10 months back

                                                                            This is an amazing video I’m a HUGE romantic and a lot of other LDR videos are just sad this was amazing, great content, awesome anecdotes, solid content

                                                                            • Nidhi Nagar
                                                                              Nidhi Nagar  10 months back

                                                                              How do we deal with a shy guy ( less talkative ) in ldr and know he is into you?

                                                                              • Sejal Christian
                                                                                Sejal Christian  10 months back

                                                                                I am in long distance relationship but now problem create from his site. He wrote that don't even single message send until I don't. So I worried about our relationship. At some stage I feel that into our relationship I am the only one present. He don't involve as I involved