Q&A | Birth Control, Husbands Job, Baby Name

  • Published: 01 November 2018
  • Q&A | Birth Control, Husbands Job, Baby Name
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  • Milena Ciciotti
    Milena Ciciotti   1 years back

    I’ve been getting a lot of feedback in the comments on the homosexuality question, so I want to link this answer from Ravi Zacharias because this is a topic that needs the right articulation, and he is excellent at doing just that. Please be soft hearted and kind in voicing our opinions to each other as we can all learn something from one another 💛

    • Sort of Christian
      Sort of Christian  7 months back

      @Linda Inês Gonçalves Thank you for actually showing empathy towards us! We love y'all!

    • Sort of Christian
      Sort of Christian  7 months back

      @Abbey J thank you for your comment! I am a gay woman and you have no idea how damaging it is for us to be told we are 'sinners' or that we must remain celibate for the rest of our lives! Even when we are told that we are loved as people but our sin is hated it drives us into depression and shame.

      I wish religion would just embrace us and stop being so ignorant to the real struggles we face. I'm getting tired of it. We just want to be told we are allowed to be ourselves without guilt. None of this "love the sinner, hate the sin" garbage! It hurts and it drives us away from Christ.

      Either religions accept the LGBTQ community and embrace our differences, or people will continue to leave churches and the word of God.

    • Sort of Christian
      Sort of Christian  8 months back

      Hans Banana this gives me hope. Although racism still exists, majority of the population is not racist. I estimate that in 10-20 years, ALL churches will affirm the LGBTQ community. We are not hurting anyone for who we love and are intimate with. Accept us or realize that people will continue to leave churches in droves.

    • e546a 850
      e546a 850  10 months back

      @Hans Banana It honestly saddens me that you don't know God nor do you understand. You have been brainwashed by society to think a certain way. You think, "society says this so it must be right".
      I honestly feel sorry for you.

    • Hans Banana
      Hans Banana  10 months back

      Emma S. This isn’t a game first of all. And I do know the Hebrew texts. And I have read the Bible many times. The verse you just gave about treating slaves with respect is in the Bible and I don’t deny it. I’ve read it. But it directly contracts the one about beating your slave. Saying you can beat a slave and then in another verse saying you should respect is a big contradiction. Let’s let go of the beating and the respect part just for a second and take in the fact that the Bible condones slavery in the first place. Owning a human under any circumstances is wrong. The fact that you don’t have an issue with the Bible condoning slavery in the first place is concerning. You don’t know me. When I was a believer the Bible was my life. Not to mention I was required by my parents to study it. I enjoyed it even then. But I know how the Bible was written. How they chose the books that would and wouldn’t be canonized. You can believe in the Bible if you want. I don’t care. Just remember just because you believe in the Bible doesn’t mean you’re more educated in it. Most of my family believes in the Bible and yet they admit they have never actually read the whole thing. Just verses their pastors told them to look up. I’ve read the Bible many times. And just because you don’t like what I say doesn’t mean you can claim I haven’t. And typically I’m not so snippy but you randomly commented on a comment of mine that was from months ago.
      Also I love how Christians say they are so moral but they think people who simply don’t believe are going to burn for eternity. Is your cognitive dissonance so strong that you can’t see how utterly messed up that is. According to your beliefs if a rapist rapes and murders a 12 year old but later repents and gets “saved” he gets to spend eternity in heaven. But if that 12 year old happened to be an atheist he gets to burn for all eternity. I’m done talking to you. You defend slavery. That’s fucked.

  • Violet Gabriella
    Violet Gabriella  17 hours back

    Awwwwy your liddle belly😍😍😍😍😍

    • Her Vintage Nook
      Her Vintage Nook  4 weeks back

      Hey! What’s the name of the article you spoke of regarding the idea of true love? So so good girl!

      • kiki b
        kiki b  1 months back

        i was a vegan for awhile when i was studying the bible i realized god wants you to eat meat.

        • Jasmine Bustard
          Jasmine Bustard  2 months back

          Extremely disappointed that such a bright young woman who shares messages of respect and kindness would also spread the message that LGBTQ+ people do not deserve to live a true and fulfilling life because of an unchangeable characteristic of themselves.

          • Sarah M.
            Sarah M.  2 months back

            I'm not sure if this is something you are comfortable talking about but if you are, I would love to see videos on cultivating a good marriage. Things like how to keep the love alive (especially with a child), date ideas/things you like to do together, how to communicate effectively, etc.

            • Qwerty Keyboard
              Qwerty Keyboard  2 months back

              Hahahha that ooops meme killed me

              • Gabriella Maria Radke Chaves

                You may already know this but I didn't a few years ago so I think it's important to spread the word: as you have chosen natural family planning there are many methods to pick from, like using a diaphragm (less natural of the list), billings, sympthothermal (which is very efficient and inexpensive). Science has advanced and natural family planning has too so we don't have to rely on 20th century rhythm methods anymore (:

                • Anna Marie T1D
                  Anna Marie T1D  3 months back

                  I liked the view on soulmates.

                  • Kimberly Mercado
                    Kimberly Mercado  3 months back

                    Can you go a little more in depth on natural family planning and how you and your husband are going about it?

                    • Zoë Anne
                      Zoë Anne  3 months back

                      Do you think a woman’s only purpose is to have children

                      • Darby Nicole
                        Darby Nicole  3 months back

                        If the bible states that humans are to have control over all of the animals on the earth, does that change your thoughts on being vegan? Just curious!

                        • Laura Judd
                          Laura Judd  3 months back

                          I’m almost brought to tears. I truly loved you and your videos but I can no longer support somebody who doesn’t accept people in the LGBTQ+ community including myself. I truly hope that you will one day see how discriminatory it is to not accept people due to their sexual orientation and take a stance against that discrimination.

                          • Mallory Shae
                            Mallory Shae  3 months back

                            Y'all, I just posted a new video on my channel that I worked extra hard on! It would mean the world to me if you went and watched and maybe even subbed🙏💗

                            • Sharon Ng'ang'a
                              Sharon Ng'ang'a  4 months back

                              I agree with what you say about soulmates but one thing I’d say is that even if God has something specific laid out for you, it doesn’t remove the choice, you can still choose whether or not to do what He says or to partake. Btw, I really enjoy your videos and just keep doing what you’re doing!

                              • Daphne Cano-Aviles
                                Daphne Cano-Aviles  5 months back

                                A little late on commenting lol buuuut, I love, LOVE this outfit ❤😍😇

                                • e546a 850
                                  e546a 850  6 months back

                                  I agree that some people just want to ignore the Bible and want to have different interpretations of the Bible based on emotion, but some people have interpretations that are well-founded and shouldn't just be immediately dismissed as "well you're just questioning God."
                                  I, for example, lean more 'egalitarian' when it comes to marriage, and I don't think that submission in marriage is one sided. And it's not because I have no reason to think that or I'm just "dismissing it because I don't like it". When I read Paul's letters I am careful to consider that a lot of what he said has cultural implications. I make sure to keep that in mind whenever I read his writings, and therefore I keep that in mind when reading Ephesians 5. I think a lot of Christians make the mistake of "cherry picking" when they consider the cultural context in some passages and then completely dismiss it in others. In not saying that cultural context affects the meaning of the passage every single time, as some things he writes are universal and aren't really "cultural" (ie homosexuality) but we need to be careful not to throw cultural context and knowledge away in case it *does* affect meaning.

                                  • Dixie Hull
                                    Dixie Hull  6 months back

                                    You have some very interesting points. I am not sure if I agree, but I love how you backed up your opinion and you have given me a lot to research and look into. Keep up the good work!

                                    • Rachael Rutten
                                      Rachael Rutten  6 months back

                                      Well said on relationships 👏🏾👏🏾

                                      • Kelsey Hatch
                                        Kelsey Hatch  6 months back

                                        Also, about the whole natural family planning thing - yeah girl! birth control is so nasty in what it does for your body and i had pretty much the same experience you did. check out the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility and Tempdrop (a wearable thermometer that is SO easy to use and VERY easy for breastfeeding moms). Tempdrop has changed my life when it comes to family planning. (And there's also a Facebook group attached to Tempdrop that is SO helpful.) My husband and I have not gotten pregnant and it's been three years since I've been off birth control (and we were not trying to conceive).

                                        • Kelsey Hatch
                                          Kelsey Hatch  6 months back

                                          love your videos so far! i'm catching up on your old ones first :) just a comment, which you can take it or leave it, but i've been listening to health and nutrition and pregnancy podcasts for the past 3-4 years and done a LOT of research on nutrition especially during pregnancy and i'm urging you to not be a vegetarian (especially not a vegan) not only for your own health, but especially for any future children you may have. if at the very least, to not be a vegetarian/vegan while growing another life inside you. nutrients growing babies need are found only in animal products, and if they don't get it during pregnancy, there can be issues later on once the child has been born. i am completely against animal cruelty, so i get where you are coming from, that's why i try to only purchase grass-fed, organic, no hormones, pasture raised, etc. Anyway, just my two cents in case no one has ever brought it up yet :)

                                          • Claudia Barchilon
                                            Claudia Barchilon  7 months back

                                            Picking and choosing parts of the Bible is so common. I’m so glad you brought that up!

                                            • sophie norris
                                              sophie norris  7 months back

                                              What lipstick are you wearing i'm totally obsessed!!! Every video i watch i'm always in love with your lipsticks and its inspired me to wear lipstick everyday now <3

                                              • likaself
                                                likaself  7 months back

                                                Natural Family Planning, that's the way to go, good on you.
                                                Chemical contraception (birth control is such a bad name is it is not about controlling births) is bad for ones health, in fact no long term studies have ever been done. Also many can have an abortifacient effect - cause the death of the newly conceived one.

                                                • Gabriela Pereira
                                                  Gabriela Pereira  8 months back

                                                  I don't understand, your husband said in the video of her name that it was a subscriber that said "you should name her Alethea cause thats my name", and now you said it was something you have wanted for centuries?? Dont get it

                                                  • Julia Malinowska
                                                    Julia Malinowska  8 months back

                                                    God created woman and man so they can have children. That’s the reason why a lot Christians say homosexuality is wrong, because it’s not „natural“. Because man and man or woman and woman cannot bear children. But god didn’t n made sex just to have fun. And if you’re taking birth control it means you’re automatically cannot get pregnant and you’re having sex just for fun. So I guess it’s not really okey for Christians to take birth Control. A lot of Christians pick things which they want to follow and criticise people who are not following them. For Exempel the homosexuality thing.

                                                    • Goose
                                                      Goose  9 months back

                                                      Question. With your daith (probably spelled that wrong) piercing, is it just one ear? If so, a specific ear? I get chronic migraines and have been thinking about getting that done.

                                                      • Mireia Reverte
                                                        Mireia Reverte  9 months back

                                                        Is there anything else besides God that you know about, or will you talk about?

                                                        • sarah a. alves
                                                          sarah a. alves  9 months back

                                                          What you think about birth control is amazing. Those pills can cause abortion without people even know

                                                          • David Chiu
                                                            David Chiu  9 months back

                                                            WELL said on chemical birth control
                                                            ... too many decades of less brave women
                                                            neutering themselves to separate marriage
                                                            from its PURPOSE -- children

                                                            no wonder theres been so much confusion
                                                            abt what marriage means -- sure its abt love
                                                            but more specifically abt loving someone so
                                                            much you wanna combine w/ them to make
                                                            more of each other and raise those lil blends
                                                            in the proven best environment of commitment

                                                            • Hayley Evans
                                                              Hayley Evans  9 months back

                                                              Unfortunately, it’s very clear how you feel regarding homosexuality, but it seems to me that you don’t want to be honest about how you feel because homophobia is now (thankfully) unacceptable and you don’t want any negative consequences for your channel.

                                                              You’re much more conservative than I am, and even though I disagree with you on some areas, such as the concepts of virginity and purity, I still enjoyed your videos for the most part.

                                                              However, I could never in good conscience follow or support someone who would treat some people as less deserving of love, happiness and the human right to a family life simply because of who they fall in love with. As such, I’ll be unfollowing on here, IG etc. I hope one day you will realise how wrong it is to deny a person the happiness that you have just because you don’t agree with how God made them.

                                                              • Emily S.
                                                                Emily S.  9 months back

                                                                I think you’re doing an excellent job with all your videos!
                                                                I can see by the comments that there’s a ton of controversy and issues, but i want to tell you, sweet lady, that you are doing an awesome job!
                                                                You’re a beautiful daughter of the King and it makes me so happy to watch your videos, because you bring so much positivity into my life and I love it!
                                                                Love you, sweetheart!

                                                                • Muva Kay
                                                                  Muva Kay  9 months back

                                                                  Would you rather hear me express my feelings and how I don’t support homosexuality or would you rather have me keep my thoughts to myself?? She did a very good job at not addressing a situation she does not agree with. Just because someone is a Christian doesn’t mean that they have to be perfect and accepting of everything. I’m a Christian, I don’t support homosexuality, but I don’t treat you as anything less than a human being.

                                                                  • Marjorie McLeod
                                                                    Marjorie McLeod  9 months back

                                                                    Nitrates were triggering my migranes!

                                                                    • Mary Gale
                                                                      Mary Gale  9 months back

                                                                      Wow you are really weird girl😳 you may be a great person a good wife and a good mom but all this things you said does not make sense for me... so you don’t wanna take birth control after giving birth... my question is: you wanna have 4 kids and now imagine you have your 4 kids and you don’t want to have more kids but you also don’t want to take birth control. The risk is very high to get pregnant again...and then you will have 5 kids... what if it happens again and again... will you have 10 kids one day??? I mean really? To say that this is gods plan its stupid and i tell you why.. you and your husband make the decision to make children not god. Or do you hear voices from god telling you hey milena make love with your husband?? No its your choice so don’t tell its gods plan. I do believe in god and i think its beautiful to believe in him but some things just does not make sense... you say you don’t wanna talk about homosexuality... that answers the question what you are thinking about. You said it already indirectly. Thats so sad... if you think its ok why don’t you speak out for all this humans out there? If you think its bad then tell the truth... its not forbidden to say what you think or feel. But never forget you will never know how your kids will turn out and it comes always back where it hurts us the most... and thats our children. I can not imagine to have a life focused on jesus thats not realistic for me. I think you live in your bubble and thats just not what it really is in real life...! I don’t wanna hurt you its just my opinion.

                                                                      • greenhorn
                                                                        greenhorn  9 months back

                                                                        i think you are me from another life. we agree on so many things it's crazy!

                                                                        • greenhorn
                                                                          greenhorn  9 months back

                                                                          If you're looking for something to help migraines, try magnesium!

                                                                          • Rose Baez
                                                                            Rose Baez  9 months back

                                                                            Ultimately it's not our opinion, its God's word. My opinion doesn't count. I am a believer and I beleive what God says is sin in His word. I also know that God does love the sinner but He is clear on what the TRUTH is, whether we agree or not. We have a right to choose but just because we have the right to choose doesn't mean we choose what is right in the eyes of God. We can't be afraid of what others think of us however, we can do all things in LOVE. Love the sinner, hate the sin and its deception. Blessings

                                                                            • Sher Padg
                                                                              Sher Padg  9 months back

                                                                              Just started watching your channel and I love it! Already made me realize how much of a better Christian that I can and should be! And I wanted to say for all the negative comments..... you can disagree with parts of someone's lifestyle, honestly you will probably disagree with some part of everyone's lifestyle, this doesnt mean that you love anyone any less or cast any judgement❤😊

                                                                              • Miku Coast
                                                                                Miku Coast  9 months back

                                                                                I know I am late to the game, and you won't see this but I need to speak. Milena, I see comments saying how bad you were to speak about homosexuality a certain way and I see good comments. But I want you to know just like in your other video about sex, it is no ones business what you believe in, your relationship with your faith is with God and God only. Don't let people push you with "It's 2019 we should be past this" and don't be pushed with, "I totally agree with you!". Believe in what the bible tells you and believe what God tells you. Those who unsubscribe over an opinion are not worth it, in fact none of us are. God is worth it, and you spreading his word is worth it.

                                                                                • Destiny 100
                                                                                  Destiny 100  9 months back

                                                                                  Pulling out is a form of birth control too, though, right?

                                                                                  • Destiny 100
                                                                                    Destiny 100  9 months back

                                                                                    Pulling out is a form of birth control too, though, right?

                                                                                    • Kaja Rossavik
                                                                                      Kaja Rossavik  9 months back

                                                                                      Aw I love that you want to go vegan❤️ I went vegan a year ago and it is the best thing I’ve ever done (except following Jesus ofc😍😅) love your values!✨

                                                                                      • ur local loser
                                                                                        ur local loser  10 months back

                                                                                        the comments are sad. people are automatically assuming you hate lgbt for simply not supporting it. just because we dont agree with something someone does, doesnt mean we hate the person. my brother is a druggie, in and out of jail, i dont agree with ANYTHING he’s doing but i still love him!

                                                                                        • lutho matiwane
                                                                                          lutho matiwane  10 months back

                                                                                          How are you this cute sis??

                                                                                          • Lyn Gonza
                                                                                            Lyn Gonza  10 months back

                                                                                            Girrrl ❤️ 💜 🧡💛💚💙 🙏🏻

                                                                                            • Rehhörnchen
                                                                                              Rehhörnchen  10 months back

                                                                                              I agree with you on the topic about picking a profession right after high school. Im an IT student now, I am 21 years old but I dont feel like this is the right thing for me. I feel very pressured because its been already 3 years since I gratuated high school so Its actually about time to gratuade from college and I know that my family will be so dissapointed in me if I change my profession. Everyone expects me to gratiuade from college soon but I still dont really know what I actually want to do for the rest of my life. THIS IS SO HARD.

                                                                                              • giselle caracas
                                                                                                giselle caracas  10 months back

                                                                                                it’s not you offending, it’s the Word of God that offends people because they are convicted. do not be ashamed of the Lord before men or He is going to be ashamed of you before His Father. we both know the Bible says very clearly in 1 Corinthian 6:9 that no homosexual, along with the many other things that are listed in that passage, will not inherit the Kingdom of God. don’t fear the rejection or opinion of man, fear God and speak the truth! don’t compromise.