5 Things a Man Will Do ONLY if He Really Loves You

  • Published: 23 February 2017
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    When I traveled around the country to interview America's greatest marriages, I learned something very important about love.
    Love isn't a feeling...as many people assume.
    Love is actually a verb. It's best defined by actions we take to express what our partner means to us. It's those actions that speak volumes above the words "I love you." In this week's video, I reveal 5 actions a man will take when he really loves you.

    Please post a comment on this video... I'd love to hear your thoughts about this topic!



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    Mat Boggs Bio:

    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

    As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs’ dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

    Mat’s Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

    As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

    Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.

    If you’re interested in receiving help attracting love or improving your relationship click here: http://www.crackingthemancode.com/coaching/

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Comments • 1 292

  • Ilse Wippenaar
    Ilse Wippenaar  4 days back

    6:20 minutes. Awesome.

    • Nosa Izekor
      Nosa Izekor  2 weeks back

      That kind of man doesn't exist in my life at all the kind of guy I am dating is the one that is asking me for money he seems to be taking advantage of me I have blocked him off my mobile phone on silence I don't deserve that kind of guy in my life I am not giving him any money he can go to hell

      • Waseem Qureshi
        Waseem Qureshi  3 weeks back

        I take care of his needs

        • ben nichols
          ben nichols  3 weeks back

          Forget this idiot. Men will do anything if you fuck them regularly. Thats it. Just trade your pussy for stuff and stop being lying cunts about it.

          • leni giggz
            leni giggz  4 weeks back

            I still can't over the fact that he kicked his wife in the butt lmao

            • Radha Sen
              Radha Sen  1 months back

              If you are giving sound advice today years after kicking your wife's butt in public...
              You've come a long way baby!😂😂
              If somebody ever even tried doing that to me at 22 or 60 they'd have had a crushed foot for life!
              You know a man loves you when he treats you with respect, makes little things in life easier, appreciates what you do for him and gives you first priority and values your opinions And accepts you exactly as you are..

              • Katie B
                Katie B  2 months back

                Guys have it good with me, movie-wise...I have a few girly movies I love, but I’d much rather see the action, comic book movies, suspenseful movies any day😂 My crush saw me rubbing my neck the other day (didn’t even realize I was doing it) and he took his arm from around my waist and gave me a massage. So sweet.

                • Yalda S
                  Yalda S  2 months back

                  1- we see each other everyday picks me up from work and takes me to dinner and together till late night.
                  2- we have already decided our future our new house and business.
                  3- we both are having 4 online successful business.
                  4- He has the feeling if he looses me he is not gonna survive and likes me a lot to be in his life. He is teaching me self defence tactics if he was not around. And he really enjoys his time with me I have good sense of humour and I’m sarcastic he loves that.
                  5- I met his some friends not all.

                  But 3 things is not clear with me, we have been dating since 6 months.

                  1- He has not introduced me to his family.
                  2- he likes me to post our together pics on my accounts but he hates social media and has the accounts but never posts anything.
                  3- he hasn’t said “I love you” or to “commit” till now.

                  These things makes me so worried. Please help. Thanks

                  • Toadyhead
                    Toadyhead  2 months back

                    I cook something that he mentioned that he would like to eat or that I know he would like, without it having to be something that I want to eat.  I'll clean before the weekend, because I know that a clean area is mood uplifting and that would  make him feel psychologically better.  I'll buy him little surprise goodies when I go grocery shopping.  I don't just volunteer him to do favors for my family.  I ask him and help him if he agrees to help someone out.  If he is in pain, I will do: rubs with medicinal creams, hot/cold pack, cold or hot things to drink, etc. in an effort to make it better.  Lots of other stuff and it's all stuff that I enjoy doing because I love him.

                    • Emokiriemi Abednego
                      Emokiriemi Abednego  2 months back

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                      • Who-man ?
                        Who-man ?  2 months back

                        OMG sounds like a BETA to me

                        • tradingrichmom
                          tradingrichmom  2 months back

                          Thanks Mat, really laughed my lungs off on 2:16 xDD

                          • Nicolette Safarian
                            Nicolette Safarian  2 months back

                            i was with someone like this but was still abusive and a narcissist

                            • dawn riel
                              dawn riel  2 months back

                              Haha 😂

                              • Vedana Vedana
                                Vedana Vedana  3 months back

                                I give home full body massage

                                • Cute and Fluffy Pikachu
                                  Cute and Fluffy Pikachu  3 months back

                                  Well I’m officially dating my self then as I’m all 5 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

                                  • Mona Moore
                                    Mona Moore  3 months back

                                    *Any woman dating man she is stupid men just want sex.... sex humiliating women... men don't respect women don't love women like we loves them back... let them used sex doll... trust me men don't deserve any wast of time or angry... focused on your work on making money... money always makes you happy... I rather be alone forever than falling in love doing sex and get dumped... it's humiliating... stop girls to humiliating yourselfers for men*

                                    • Kathy -Lee
                                      Kathy -Lee  3 months back

                                      #1 good thing I don't like movies
                                      Ha ha ha

                                      • Kat Tastrophe
                                        Kat Tastrophe  3 months back

                                        A narccissist will fake these things before the mask slips, and the devaluation phase begins.

                                        • Selene
                                          Selene  3 months back

                                          Omg I love your videos, they are funny but I came to the conclusion that my marriage is on a good path. Thanks 💜

                                          • Sophie Dan
                                            Sophie Dan  3 months back

                                            So my Love Language is quality time so I understand this completely!! I am very much an independent person, but so that means that our time together has to be that much more quality since I like both things.

                                            As far as when I show love, I HATE to cook and always have and I’ll tell you that this feeling/desire has only ever come about for 2 different people and times in my life...but I actually want to make them meals it’s so weird! Lol

                                            • fukuro kun
                                              fukuro kun  3 months back

                                              Its not manipulation or selfish if u want try something the other person doesn’t want to, if the other person loves me they would give it a try.

                                              • Claire D.
                                                Claire D.  3 months back

                                                morning version 😂

                                                • lps fire Sparks
                                                  lps fire Sparks  3 months back

                                                  A man can do all those things and then turn around and be extremely abusive too

                                                  • Jasmyn Mears
                                                    Jasmyn Mears  4 months back

                                                    You had me at that wig 😂

                                                    • Carmen Frias L.
                                                      Carmen Frias L.  4 months back

                                                      I used to visit my man as many times as i could.

                                                      • Andrea Smith
                                                        Andrea Smith  4 months back

                                                        This video was a great reminder that actions speak louder than words 💜💜💜 feeling very loved today 😍

                                                        • amazingyear
                                                          amazingyear  4 months back

                                                          Then Dupi definitely Loves ME because he ticks ALL boxes! I already Knew that! 🥰👊🏻😉 Thankyou for confirming it.

                                                          • SongOfGrace
                                                            SongOfGrace  4 months back

                                                            Love is A Verb. Who remembers that old DC Talk song?

                                                            • Leah C
                                                              Leah C  4 months back

                                                              I give my time, trust and honesty, thought, even trying to give attention to remember his wants and needs, and buying him simple things that I know he might enjoy, physical effection, loving him in a deeper level, not just for looks etc doing things to make him happy even its inconvenient for me, trying to be a listening ear, and love making him laugh, trying to get involved with activities, music etc he likes even I dont, pay for things too, etc, etc, and he seems to do the same... and also trying to bounce back from teasing commentes and keep a smile just to keep the company pleasant ... etc, but thats where things get hard.. I feel he says things that press my buttons so deeply more often than not, and although with a certain amount of forgiving on my side and some explination in the end (and lately even got abit of a 'sorry' which I dont buy at this point..) I feel like although there is deep love there the dynamics is not working. He generally isnt the lovy dovey type which I kinda I am, like those simple attention throughout the day.. Hes more deciplined generally and stuff. But again we have good fun times at times, laugh, have a spirtual connection, spend lots of time, text every day etc... and although Im older its my first proper "date" so I dont know if it just needs more work and wearing in the connection and time, or this isn't something that it is going to work out, cuz very often it hurts as much as it is healing and loving and beautiful. I just dont want to keep on trying to improve myself either because this is getting painful. I didnt think love was easy but with the right will to see through it shouldnt be this hard either... if you get me. But I wish I can see more change and work not just from me because I know Ive been through sh*t and I can get emotional and not always that confidant or experienced etc, but also from him and more readily to acknowledge and understand the things that hurt me deeply, and try to me emotionally available for me too... not just on those moments we 'connect'... wish I could afford a relationship councellor for some advice but I'm intrested to even see what thoughts and comments crop up here just so I have some food for thought. Thanks for any comments in advance.

                                                              • Nadia Asencio
                                                                Nadia Asencio  4 months back

                                                                “Love is a VERB.” I’ve been saying this for years. That’s why love takes time, bc emotional commitment takes time to develop. Self-sacrifice in any relationship (outside of parent-child, bc we can sacrifice for our kids immediately) can only happen when there’s a history of reciprocation, which builds trust. Great work, Matt; please keep it up!

                                                                • Emokiriemi Abednego
                                                                  Emokiriemi Abednego  4 months back

                                                                  Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally  married to me here in UK is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail  (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.

                                                                  • Johnson Yuen
                                                                    Johnson Yuen  4 months back

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                                                                    • Mariam Ayub
                                                                      Mariam Ayub  4 months back

                                                                      Really enjoy watching your video! Hard to figure these things out sometimes. Haven't experienced anything in person with anyone in a long time but now I know what to look for if I ever do. :-) and greet funny story in the restaurant! LOL I don't know if I've ever had anyone kicked me in the butt, although in high school I got the kick me sign on my back, true George McFly style! LOL

                                                                      • Revilyn Catolico
                                                                        Revilyn Catolico  4 months back

                                                                        Very interesting and knowledgeable video..

                                                                        • Sara Almousa
                                                                          Sara Almousa  5 months back

                                                                          Dear you are speaking about the ideal man but if a men is a bad character he will be selfish in any way even if he loves you to death as he thinks because bad people by their nature do not love any one but them selves.

                                                                          • Cindy Smith
                                                                            Cindy Smith  5 months back

                                                                            Foot massage 💖

                                                                            • Amanda Hatfield
                                                                              Amanda Hatfield  5 months back

                                                                              What do I do for someone when I am really loving them?
                                                                              I try to mommy them for lack of better words.
                                                                              I cook, clean, provide, and try to keep comfortable. I help them when they are doing something. Anything and everything to accommodate that person

                                                                              • crystal whitaker
                                                                                crystal whitaker  5 months back

                                                                                Lol im sick right now and wish he would bring me something. He wouldnt call me back.. 🙁

                                                                                • Chelrenee Shimko
                                                                                  Chelrenee Shimko  5 months back

                                                                                  A good way to love a man, especially when his day has been stressful, is to just be there with his favorites food or a back rub, and no matter how much we as women want to talk, being quiet, and postponing "real life" just for the night ;)

                                                                                  • nwabuifybest ifybest
                                                                                    nwabuifybest ifybest  5 months back

                                                                                    U shows him love when u have his time and take care of him

                                                                                    • MIN JEON
                                                                                      MIN JEON  5 months back


                                                                                      • Nina Nickel
                                                                                        Nina Nickel  5 months back

                                                                                        Love is a feeling as well. When you love someone all you want to do is love them or be in their life somehow. It’s actually a very hard feeling to explain. Then based off that feeling comes action. Otherwise are actions wouldn’t have intention. We would just be zombies helping each other. I get it though.

                                                                                        • Sheila C
                                                                                          Sheila C  5 months back

                                                                                          Every time there’s a special day for us ... he wants to bring someone along from his family... like we planned a trip and it was supposed to be for us to enjoy each other and spend quality time together. He tells his 20 year old daughter if she wants to go with us... is that selfish of me??

                                                                                          • Lorraine alesia
                                                                                            Lorraine alesia  5 months back

                                                                                            I spoiled my man by serving delectable foods made from scratch do his laundry takes care of the house and working too , give him taught full compliments, take care of my body for me and him , make myself attractive for us too , give outstanding blow Job and being a whore in bed . Also listening well when he talks and I am sweet most of the time and respectful of his needs , give space when he needs it and I let him be the man !

                                                                                            • D C
                                                                                              D C  5 months back

                                                                                              Bah, I guess my partner doesn't love me. I do all that for him but he doesn't for me. All he does is work too much and gives me his credit card to leave him alone :(

                                                                                              • Irina Gribanova
                                                                                                Irina Gribanova  5 months back

                                                                                                Haha! Just love this )))

                                                                                                • alcudiababe1
                                                                                                  alcudiababe1  5 months back

                                                                                                  My husband when I've been really ill he's got out of a cozy warm bed to get me medication I need and sometimes like that when he comes home from work, especially when I told him I just felt stressed a week ago , stressed and I didn't know why but brought me an ice cream from McDonald's it's just little things like that. He's gone out to get himself lunch, he doesn't even ask me anything, he just comes home saying I thought you'd like a treat. When I was going through depression a few months back, he bought me this beautiful orange top and some game cards I use and even some Jean bottoms which I'm still wearing today