‘You’re Really Selling Yourself Short; You’re Not Being Your Own Best Friend,’ Dr. Phil Tells Gue…

  • Published: 09 January 2020
  • A 29-year-old says growing up he was bullied, but once he started getting plastic surgery and transforming into a K-pop artist, he has become a totally different person. Is he really happy? And, why Does Dr. Phil tell him he’s selling himself short?

    Dr. Phil uses the power of television to tell compelling stories about real people.

    The Dr. Phil show provides the most comprehensive forum on mental health issues in the history of television. For over a decade, Dr. McGraw has used the show's platform to make psychology accessible and understandable to the general public by addressing important personal and social issues. Using his top-rated show as a teaching tool, he takes aim at the critical issues of our time, including the "silent epidemics" of bullying, drug abuse, domestic violence, depression, child abuse, suicide and various forms of severe mental illness.
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  • I. Love. K-Pop
    I. Love. K-Pop  2 weeks back

    Yes Jimin is perfect and makes u and us happy, yes we also go through a amount of time where we wanna be Jimin or another BTS member

    But what are u gonna do when they disband?

    • Sophia Browne
      Sophia Browne  2 weeks back

      oil london wonders why he gets hate 😔✋

      • Stan Kpop
        Stan Kpop  2 weeks back

        honestly, he’s a really good guy. No reasons to hate him, he’s just trying to love himself ❤️

        • Ayleen Wang
          Ayleen Wang  2 weeks back

          I think, the thing is, it doesn’t matter if he want to be korean or something, the scary thing is, he is a Sasaeng Fan, (a fan who is obsessed with an idol). To be a fan is okay, but to be obsessed is dangerous. I mean imagine you to be Jimin, to know someone is obsessed with you, goes to your places, married a cardboard cutout, and does plastic surgery to look like you.
          You would be scarier and afraid because you don’t know where this person can be. He can behind you if you go the supermarket or follows you to your home. Such Fans even goes to your home and break in. I don’t know if he Oli would do it.
          He may seem like a nice guy, who has low self confidence in his look but if you would be Jimin, you don’t know how far someone can go who even had plastic surgery to look like you.
          And Jimin don’t know this. There are a lot of Sasaeng Fans, he has to deal with every day, so he can’t know how far someone can go, that even look like him.

          I mean, that Oli has plastic surgery doesn’t physically hurt Jimin. And he may seem like a nice guy. But does we or Jimin know, where Oli stop? No, and that’s why everyone of us, would be afraid if we would be Jimin.

          Because Sasaeng Fans can go far, really really far. (Trying to kill a idol happened a lot)

          • confused chelsea
            confused chelsea  2 weeks back

            jesus christ

            • Sidra M
              Sidra M  2 weeks back

              bts:love yourself!
              oil:imma end this man’s whole career

              • PeachyOnce
                PeachyOnce  2 weeks back

                Oli honestly seems like such a nice bloke
                apart from y'know
                the 150k of plastic

                • TheFireInInsfires -
                  TheFireInInsfires -  2 weeks back

                  1:49 damn he really is a solo Stan...

                  • M_J
                    M_J  2 weeks back

                    BTS: Love yourself
                    Oli : I want to look like Jimin so I get surgeries

                    • silent moon
                      silent moon  2 weeks back

                      The least he can do now is stop with the surgeries, make up and fancy clothing and take some time to reflect on himself & who he really is. Plus his nose is collapsing, please don’t touch your face anymore and embrace your inner self.

                      • KEYLORE
                        KEYLORE  2 weeks back

                        BTS Jimin's story that inspire me:

                        Park Jimin is just a talented boy who really love to perform. When he was really young he had a dream to become a swordman, so he learned material arts for 8 years. He got a black belt to prove that. In middle school, He fell in love with dancing and learned pop and lock dance. His devotion to dancing impresses his friends and coaches. In high school, he studied contemporary dance at Busan high school of arts and become a top student. But he dreamed of a bigger stages to perform, so dispite all the teachers attemps to stop him, he auditioned to become a kpop idol.
                        It was the begining of his struggle. Because of his previous training in contemporary dance, his body moved differently from the other members so he almost didn't make it into the BTS line up until 2 days before the debut. He trained his body days and night to matched the BTS' dance style at the time. 2 hours of sleep in the practice room was a routine. And he had more rocky path to get to where he is now, from slanders to self doubts and more.
                        Now he is happy, not only because of BTS' successes but because he understand how to love and believe in himself.

                        • LARA x
                          LARA x  2 weeks back

                          I actually feel sorry for him, I honestly do

                          • Jungkook BTS
                            Jungkook BTS  2 weeks back

                            Me 😤 : Oli London, you are just a fake Army, do you know ¿¡
                            Also me : i don't want Jimin to see ever him 😕
                            Jimin 😭 crying in the corner : What i Did wROng in my life ?

                            • jisoo my love
                              jisoo my love  2 weeks back

                              Bts are the besttttt

                              • BlackPink in your Area
                                BlackPink in your Area  2 weeks back

                                Yall are harsh on Oli😧
                                Don't you guys understand?

                                • Army Moa
                                  Army Moa  2 weeks back

                                  He genuinely seems like a nice guy but he seems like a solo stan and I don’t really like that and to add to that is that he’s wasted all this money to look like jimin and he looks nothing like him. Jimin is scared honestly

                                  • utesco
                                    utesco  2 weeks back

                                    if he loves jimin. and he wants to become jimin. he is TECHNICALLY loving himself.

                                    except he looks nothing like him but🤪🤪

                                    • KEYLORE
                                      KEYLORE  2 weeks back

                                      BTS Jimin inspires me to
                                      1. Work hard and never give up to achieve my dreams
                                      2. Be kind and be care to others
                                      3. Be more generous. Share and help whenever you can, no matter how small it is
                                      4. Happier when others happy
                                      5. Love yourself. You will be in your happiest moment when you love yourself

                                      • MILKTEA
                                        MILKTEA  2 weeks back

                                        he knows nothing about bts he only uses jimin for clout

                                        • unknown
                                          unknown  2 weeks back

                                          yall hes a trol. he looks nothing like jimin and actually he doesnt even look korean. if he actually wanted to look korean he could. a man from brazil did that and he got eye surgery etc and made himself look korean but this dude uses jimin for fame and getting free plastic surgeries so please think about everything. if you look deep in his ig acc his photos are showing a rich man but now he just pretends to be a kpop idol

                                          • Mochi_ Min
                                            Mochi_ Min  2 weeks back

                                            JIMIN IS SAYING LOVE YOURSELF WHY YOU NOT GETTING IT

                                            • Mochi_ Min
                                              Mochi_ Min  2 weeks back

                                              How many times de he say Jimins name

                                              • Kübra Öztürk
                                                Kübra Öztürk  2 weeks back

                                                Where can i watch the full episode

                                                • BangtanBin
                                                  BangtanBin  2 weeks back

                                                  I honestly feel bad for him

                                                  • cutie lovely ᴀʀᴍy
                                                    cutie lovely ᴀʀᴍy  2 weeks back

                                                    Honestly oli should get himself a therapist

                                                    • Sarah holland
                                                      Sarah holland  2 weeks back

                                                      I feel Dr Phil does tend to err on being exploitative sometimes but at times like this he nails it & is very understanding.

                                                      • yunki min
                                                        yunki min  2 weeks back

                                                        Can he please go away

                                                        • Łįttìłé Mïšãkî

                                                          this just broke my heart people rlly need to think about how someone else will feel before they say something keep the hate to urself instead of helping him ur bringing him down if it makes him happy then let him do it he might do weird stuff but keep the hate to urself bc of hate like this depression and committing sucide is becoming common i hope u guys understandthat he is a human like us....

                                                          • Rita Lun
                                                            Rita Lun  2 weeks back

                                                            He “THINKS” he look like Jimin but he doesn’t at all.
                                                            It’s hard to love yourself but Getting plastic and things like that is not called love yourself, it’s destroying yourself, your perfection, and your identity. He could’ve done something better than this.

                                                            What would happen when he gets old? Like he needs to think those first. What you’re doing now is for your future and it will affect your future

                                                            • 。。。 ً
                                                              。。。 ً  2 weeks back

                                                              people saying but isnt bts's is all about love yourself no its not they are just sale it to u while they keep the glorious luxury life of them in front of ur face

                                                              • X atsnoMecnaD
                                                                X atsnoMecnaD  2 weeks back

                                                                I feel as though he likes Jimin so much for his looks, he may not even actually listen to BTS like the fans do. He may know/listen to like a few songs and keep them on repeat. BTS teach their fans to love themselves and respect themselves...that is NOT loving nor respectful because you aren't happy with yourself, you're changing yourself to be someone else. Jimin may seem perfect, but he's not...because he is a human being just like the rest of us, we're all imperfect. And the crazy part about it is that he wasn't even ugly before the surgeries and honestly, he looks nothing like Jimin(no offense). I hope Jimin tells him that it's not worth it, love yourself and be proud of who you are because if you don't, who will? I feel like at this point, he has to want to stop firstly and Jimin has to be the one to tell him because no matter what the therapists/doctors say, he's gonna keep doing it. But if Jimin were to tell him how unhealthy it is, maybe, JUST maybe he'll gain knowldedge of what he's really doing to himself. But I do wish him well, I hope that he open his eyes sooner than later before something bad happens😬💜

                                                                • ZELLA
                                                                  ZELLA  2 weeks back

                                                                  bro hes finally on here

                                                                  • krychot
                                                                    krychot  2 weeks back


                                                                    i'm sorry but he looks like a lesbian mother-

                                                                    • Radnez
                                                                      Radnez  2 weeks back

                                                                      DAMN! DR PHIL PREACHING! That honestly touched my soul, 'That you've basically taken over for the bullies' DEEEEEEEEEEEEP

                                                                      • Annette Olaechea
                                                                        Annette Olaechea  2 weeks back

                                                                        BTS: LOVE YOURSELF
                                                                        Oli London: I wAnT tO lOoK lIkE jImIn. (even though im 5 years older than him.)

                                                                        • awkward midget
                                                                          awkward midget  2 weeks back

                                                                          Jimin is a sweet and smart hardworking man, I think that what you are doing is really disrespectful towards him.

                                                                          • awkward midget
                                                                            awkward midget  2 weeks back

                                                                            I honestly pity him because he's obviously troubled and doesn't love himself, but I also understand why some armys are hating on him.
                                                                            Armys care about bts in a genuine way (it has been shown in many occasions) and what Oli is doing is really triggering. He seems obsessed, not in love. It's really cringy and bothering seeing him trying to copy someone else's identity...

                                                                            • awkward midget
                                                                              awkward midget  2 weeks back

                                                                              I've always wondered : Oli, if BTS keep talking about loving yourself why do you go around trying to look like Jimin and changing your whole identity?

                                                                              • Sofia Recio
                                                                                Sofia Recio  2 weeks back

                                                                                Oil: “I never feel good enough”
                                                                                Love yourself album: Im a joke to u?

                                                                                • Az Vlog
                                                                                  Az Vlog  2 weeks back

                                                                                  Jungkook and v are more good looking

                                                                                  • Min Yoongi
                                                                                    Min Yoongi  2 weeks back

                                                                                    Jimin is natural btw

                                                                                    • CookieGacha Oofz
                                                                                      CookieGacha Oofz  2 weeks back

                                                                                      Y'all rlly need to take part in protecting our beloved boy... Bighit is doing their best but they need our help too.. we can't just stay there complaining about Oli, we need to do something. Actions speak louder than words and remember to Love Yourself.. luv u 💜💜

                                                                                      • Kachu
                                                                                        Kachu  2 weeks back

                                                                                        I really feel like he needs help... all of that obsession over Jimin and trying to become a different person, even ethnicity ( 1) yikes 2) not possible anyway), shows how deep-rooted his issues and insecurities are. Trying to be like someone else, meaning, trying to get away from the person you actually are, and getting plastic surgery over and over... and over again to try and become confident and feel good about yourself is never going to work. He definitely knows how to sell himself and make money and get clout out of all of this... and I know he's problematic but I just wish, he'd stop getting deeper and deeper into this because he's totally losing himself...I feel like he needs a professional who would help him sort out his issues with himself. He can never make peace with the world before he hasn't made peace with himself.

                                                                                        I don't know... I mean, I also share the opinions of most people in regards to him. But there's still something in me that feels a bit bad for him because it really looks like he doesn't have a healthy mind at all and it's kinda sad to see what has become of him.

                                                                                        • shams sharkas
                                                                                          shams sharkas  2 weeks back

                                                                                          .hates himself
                                                                                          .looks at his negative ...parts???
                                                                                          .Is not actually himself

                                                                                          dude... you said you like BTS. I think you have been listeneing to something else. probably Silent "k" music... only Jojo fans will understand...

                                                                                          • periwinko
                                                                                            periwinko  2 weeks back

                                                                                            i still feel like he’s doing this for attention because come on,,,, with all that money he could’ve seen bts at a concert or something smh it’s clear to me that he’s doing this for free surgeries. :/

                                                                                            • Mal Love
                                                                                              Mal Love  2 weeks back

                                                                                              Honey, he needs help. He really does,

                                                                                              • PrincessMegan Elsa
                                                                                                PrincessMegan Elsa  2 weeks back

                                                                                                Swear! He disgusting plastic ken Doll Tell him DR phil 👏🏻👏🏻😳
                                                                                                get Help oli landon you got real issue!!

                                                                                                • nia
                                                                                                  nia  2 weeks back

                                                                                                  When this man said I love laying in bed with bandages I think big hit should sue fr