PART ONE: Why Shakira Doesn’t Want to Get Married

  • Published: 11 January 2020
  • Real fam, what do you think of Shakira choosing not to marry her longtime partner?
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  • A S
    A S  8 hours back

    I agree with Amanda on this one!!

    • Tironda Demanya
      Tironda Demanya  9 hours back

      I liked only 4 hosts with a guest host from time to time.... I hate the seating arrangement as well.

      • Kaleidoscopic Dreams
        Kaleidoscopic Dreams  9 hours back

        Don't ask for commitment if you don't want to commit. Simple as that. If the Endgame of dating isn't to make a lasting commitment, then don't get mad if they don't see you as "the one".

        • CoCo Renee
          CoCo Renee  11 hours back

          I agree with Shakira! You can be committed with the contract :-)

          • Islnd Her
            Islnd Her  20 hours back

            At this point in time, “pursuing” or courting is a dying art even in the dating stage.

            • Gisela Machado
              Gisela Machado  1 days back

              Omgggg I love Amandaaa, I might start watching this show again!

              • syvkni
                syvkni  1 days back

                Something that struck me as add the day I got married is somebody asked me, "Do you feel any different?" Because now I was someone's wife. And I said no, because I was still in the exact same relationship I had been in with the same man now we just have more paperwork.

                • Nozieypohr
                  Nozieypohr  1 days back

                  Can the introduction of a topic go back to Adrienne please.
                  New Host doesn't make it interesting 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔

                  • Non-Descript Being
                    Non-Descript Being  2 days back

                    I thought they were married, lol, but I’m not fussed about it. I like the idea of having an easier way out if things go down south with a partner and really, as long as I know I love them and they love me back...then that’s more than enough for me - the law doesn’t need to get involved with something I already know is consistent and true or not.

                    • Jassi Que
                      Jassi Que  2 days back

                      I dont like the message their sending, their making marriage seem like a deal of some sort.
                      I'm highly disappointed, what about the bible??? Is that even important anymore? Marriage is a union between two people.
                      Amanda is wrong.
                      If two people don't have self control sustaining from sex let them marry, 1 Corinthians chapter 7, a paper isnt about showing commitment, it's for the law, for legal reasons, so if your spouse dies you have legal rights to them for safety measures.
                      Without that paper and your "lover" passes away, then the government has legal rights to them.

                      • Everything Pesio
                        Everything Pesio  2 days back

                        Why couldn’t they just stick with Just Tamera, Jeanie, Loni, and Adrienne?

                        • Taylor Ingram
                          Taylor Ingram  2 days back

                          Jeanie is looking sooo beautiful!

                          • Giggles
                            Giggles  2 days back

                            Amanda Seales makes no sense, the government is involved in your paycheck. Don’t you still get your direct deposit? So her logic makes no sense on marriage. I doubt any man will marry her. Her past and current behavior is quite problematic. Smh What about kids? Govt is always involved.

                            • First class
                              First class  2 days back

                              No absolutely not when you don’t get married and waste years with a man you loose it dose not matter if you are financially able to provide for your self saying I have my own money so I don’t need marriage is masculine this is about holding men accountable if he doesn’t marry anyone he can sleep around and make baby after baby without any commitment I hope the people who don’t need a commitment don’t ever want to have kids because this is wrong thinking’s if a man is not your husband and feels he can be out at anytime continue use a condum also because theirs no commitment
                              Black women are already the last picked and least to get proposed too and the most who end up taking care of a man so for her to say that she sounds dum this is why black people own the least amount of properties too because other cultures do it with their husband ❗️the Indians Arabs and Asians all with their stores are married

                              • Fatima Hasan
                                Fatima Hasan  3 days back

                                Put some respect on pique’s name he’s not a random soccer player he’s a football legend ⚽️

                                • itsjusthayden27
                                  itsjusthayden27  3 days back

                                  Jeannie's lipstick 🔥🔥🔥 Love it.

                                  • suzie Q
                                    suzie Q  3 days back

                                    Let them be SINGLE..when they ass hit 50 they gone be begging a man to put a ring on the finger and noone will bc they will be old, bitter and lonely...😂😂😂😂

                                    • Purna Regmi
                                      Purna Regmi  3 days back

                                      Too many Ladies
                                      I don’t wanna hate nobody but too much looks ugly🤮🤮🤮🤮

                                      • Mariposa Doncella
                                        Mariposa Doncella  3 days back

                                        Marriage isn’t for everyone.

                                        • A’Real Trucker
                                          A’Real Trucker  3 days back

                                          “She make her own money so she don’t need that extra”

                                          *Applause 👏

                                          Mean while rich men are selfish

                                          • Emerald Educational Services

                                            I love the fact that they all have different perspectives.

                                            • Flora Chacha
                                              Flora Chacha  3 days back

                                              Jeannie's Lippie is aaamazing!!!!!

                                              • Livelovelaugh
                                                Livelovelaugh  3 days back

                                                It’s like all the ladies trying to get a word in and it’s making me anxious lol
                                                4 hosts was good and allowed everyone enough time to speak
                                                Now, I know nothing can be done about the 5th host, but the segments need to be longer so it’s not so rushed

                                                • Beverly Sunshine
                                                  Beverly Sunshine  3 days back

                                                  I’m actually disappointed. Marriage is an agreement under GOD. It’s not a contract smh... the stupid stuff. It was designed to move the world... Women, Man be productive and multiply. This is why the world is screwed up today. I use to feel like this until I educated myself. Just imagine a life where two virgins fell in love and created a family... and generations behind them used this same method. A once in a lifetime true partner. It wouldn’t be no STD’s, heart breaks etc. It was designed for that purpose.... talking about money and contract. When you are living right tangible possessions will come. It’s all apart of life’s promises... When you are productive you are producing... duh

                                                  • Rodia Shema
                                                    Rodia Shema  4 days back

                                                    she is grown she can do what she want!

                                                    • Balcantar18
                                                      Balcantar18  4 days back

                                                      I really don’t care what y’all say... I LOVE AMANDA.

                                                      • Alondra
                                                        Alondra  4 days back

                                                        Get your facts right. Retired...

                                                        • Kathi
                                                          Kathi  4 days back

                                                          This show is just messy. Those women are very judgmental and those arguments are soooo stupid...

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                                                            Emokiriemi Abednego  4 days back

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                                                            • Summer Lyric
                                                              Summer Lyric  4 days back

                                                              Totally disagree with Shakira. Do what you want but no way I'm voluntarily shacking up and raising kids out of wedlock.

                                                              • falloutgirl902
                                                                falloutgirl902  4 days back

                                                                What’s the point in uploading these fucking half clips???

                                                                • tarawrr20
                                                                  tarawrr20  4 days back

                                                                  Tamera’s makeup and hair have me ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

                                                                  • QTZ channel
                                                                    QTZ channel  4 days back

                                                                    Why did jeanie and tam had to move but not loni loni is always in the middle ade is fine but i feel the seating arrangement should be loni at the end then amanda then jeanie in the middle tamera and then little ade in her original spot , i love loni i love all the girls dont get me wrong but i feel its time someone else gets the middle like jeanie especially cause jeanie has alot to say about the situations that actuallg make sense when loni just nods her head or drink her drink or throw shade with her facial expressions i not for it

                                                                    • M Cupid
                                                                      M Cupid  5 days back

                                                                      They didn’t need a 5th person 🙈 sorry. Having a guess occasionally was good enough

                                                                      • Sis Soul80
                                                                        Sis Soul80  5 days back

                                                                        Amanda is already getting on my nerves talking to damn much damn......

                                                                        • Kerrie Silcock
                                                                          Kerrie Silcock  5 days back

                                                                          That other girl gots to goooooo

                                                                          • Shelby Jonai
                                                                            Shelby Jonai  5 days back

                                                                            Thank God for Amanda bringing a more current perspective.

                                                                            • Ashley Powell
                                                                              Ashley Powell  5 days back

                                                                              i understand the sentiment lol but just be careful having a long term relationship without marriage. it sucks, but legally you can run into a lot of problems with splitting, death, etc. courts and banks don’t recognize long term boyfriends

                                                                              • Black Public School boy!

                                                                                How is marriage good for the children Loni? If your parents are in the same house , that's good , they don't need a paper to he better parents !

                                                                                • Black Public School boy!

                                                                                  Marriage is a business transaction ... Hell no

                                                                                  • Black Public School boy!

                                                                                    No rule says anyone has to be married . If you love, you can commit, you don't need a paper ! Also divorce is a fuckin pain ... Ask Paul McCartney

                                                                                    • T A G
                                                                                      T A G  5 days back

                                                                                      amanda is a bad addition. I think I am over this show.

                                                                                      • jagir
                                                                                        jagir  6 days back

                                                                                        0:36 YESS TAM

                                                                                        • Standup Reject
                                                                                          Standup Reject  6 days back

                                                                                          is it me or the audience literally never claps for jeannie

                                                                                          • Barberguru B
                                                                                            Barberguru B  6 days back

                                                                                            Women agree with women no matter how dumb it is but get mad at men for not marrying

                                                                                            • Kam Yoncé
                                                                                              Kam Yoncé  6 days back

                                                                                              I really hate this thought that marriage is so damn complicated,start with love,put some things (money wise) in writing and let God or whatever u believe in lead. We are overthinking it. Im not having kids with someone i cant even trust to go to the courthouse with or go over a few contracts with🤦🏾‍♀️

                                                                                              • Rakhil T.
                                                                                                Rakhil T.  6 days back

                                                                                                On the one hand, I get that sometimes men take women for granted once they're married, but on the other hand, if you have to keep your man "on his toes" to be in a long-lasting committed relationship it doesn't seem like a good sign either...Shakira seems to be battling a sexist notion (that women have to get married) by perpetuating other sexist ideas (such as a man's non-commitment being the woman's fault or a wife being "boring.") Smh.

                                                                                                • krys meg
                                                                                                  krys meg  6 days back

                                                                                                  Amanda is shallow for thinking like that about marriage. Marriage is not materialistic as she says.