reading people's assumptions about me *sPicY*

  • Published: 03 February 2019
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    In this chatty vid, I cave and hop on the ‘reading your assumptions about me’ trend, aka youtubers willingly getting lowkey bullied for 15 min straight. I answer your assumptions from Instagram and AskFM about my sexuality, whether my family is rich, my personality in real life, my relationship with my boyfriend, eating disorders, sugar daddies, and a startling number of cinnamon toast related inquiries.

    not sure who created this vid format but i was inspired by the lovely avery ovard! ➭

    ON ME
    t-shirt: urban outfitters (
    shorts: brandy melville (
    star choker: en route (
    lipstick: buxom plumpline in hush hush (

    F A Q
    what’s your name? ashley
    what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
    how old are you? 20 (born in 1998)
    how tall are you? 5'5"
    what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
    what equipment do you use to film?
    ➭ camera:
    ➭ lens:
    ➭ vlog camera:
    ➭ voiceover mic:
    ➭ on camera mic:
    ➭ editing: final cut pro

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Comments • 4 462

  • Natasha Jarick
    Natasha Jarick  16 hours back

    im in love with u

    • juls k
      juls k  1 days back

      A queen in our mist 💖

      • jugbabie
        jugbabie  2 days back

        literally even when shes editing shes beautiful like wtf WHY U N NOT ME /:<

        • Sleepy Sunflower
          Sleepy Sunflower  2 days back

          Ashley is so good and I love her. Thank you so much for this video. When you talked about your sister I felt that. While my situation was no where near that explosive my whole life I’ve just not had the best relationship with food. I love food and I love eating but sometimes I just have no drive to eat. Or like I eat but only a little. I “eat like a bird” according to most of my family. Which kinda stung my whole life. It felt like I was wrong and bad. Ouch. I’d eat very little then feel guilty and over feed myself later on to “make up for it”. Add onto that I became allergic to some foods and didn’t know for a long time I was becoming allergic. So I’d be eating whatever and getting super fckin ill and be just feeling so crummy. It gave me food trauma and almost made me phobic of eating bc “no matter what I’m gonna get ill and feel like I’m dying” since then tho I have figured out oh shit I’m allergic to soy and gluten LOL and also dairy I already knew about. So like I adjusted my diet to not eat those foods and I kinda sorta have an ok relationship with food. I don’t always feed myself as needed but like my food trauma is kinda gone now? I went to a bit of therapy to help w my relationship w food and myself. Idk where I was going w this exactlt Imm ADD af and tired. I just kinda feel more so ok with myself I guess. Well sometimes anyways.

          • Rayevinn Martin
            Rayevinn Martin  3 days back

            I just started watching your videos recently but I've been completely binging them. I doubt you'll see this, but you are just such an amazing person! I'm so glad to have a Youtuber to watch that's so creative, inspiring, and genuine!

            • Veronica Marie
              Veronica Marie  3 days back

              I really like your voice I find it so easy to listen to, it's a big part of why I like your channel so much, your voice is actually not annoying like so many of the girls on YouTube lol

              • laia ah
                laia ah  3 days back

                wow all of these assumptions are so rude but i literally can see no flaws in ashley 🥺

                • x.maria 13
                  x.maria 13  4 days back

                  ppl being mean but i love how she stayed positive throughout the whole thing and didnt take in them offensive comments about her. i support u boo! i love ur channel dont stop

                  • Juris Ann
                    Juris Ann  4 days back

                    3:25 same gurl

                    • Beth Maxim
                      Beth Maxim  5 days back

                      All of these assumptions were so mean :(

                      • Zahra
                        Zahra  5 days back

                        "no, I actually just pee in the vape room" WHAHA

                        • Michelle Lin
                          Michelle Lin  5 days back

                          i love how real and open she is. i wanna be her friend 😭

                          • Kabuki Freak
                            Kabuki Freak  5 days back

                            NEOPETS FOR THE WIN!!!!

                            • Kitty’s Gaming
                              Kitty’s Gaming  5 days back

                              Holy snap that part were you were talking about your sister, damn. That sucks, I feel so bad! I hope it gets better

                              • Abigail Hutchinson
                                Abigail Hutchinson  5 days back

                                i hope your sister is doing better

                                • Abigail Hutchinson
                                  Abigail Hutchinson  5 days back

                                  i never even noticed her lisp

                                  • • UwU
                                    • UwU  5 days back

                                    Aww why so mean I mean you are literally absolutely amazing and you are approximatively my goals (How I would like to be) I don't get people being jealous at that point ;-;

                                    • Miku Kyut
                                      Miku Kyut  5 days back

                                      Watching this in 2020.. I now understand why Ashley said she told one joke per minute..

                                      • Ms.muffin NonBussines
                                        Ms.muffin NonBussines  7 days back

                                        where did u get your watch

                                        • Sanah Rizwan
                                          Sanah Rizwan  1 weeks back

                                          I would like you to know that your video is very nice to hear to while I am working in full concentration. I don't know if it's a compliment. But great!

                                          • Ellie Bean
                                            Ellie Bean  1 weeks back

                                            I absolutely LOVE how open you are about sex in such a casual and funny way. We need more of that from women!

                                            • Atalaya Nelson
                                              Atalaya Nelson  1 weeks back

                                              When you started talking about your sister, it made me tear up. I hope you two are in a good place now.

                                              • Pam Cusic
                                                Pam Cusic  1 weeks back

                                                I'm in my 60's, originally from Maryland (how ya doin' "hon" 😚) and find your commentary honest and refreshing. You are awesome, talented young woman! Looking forward to your NYC experience.

                                                • Bruna Murta
                                                  Bruna Murta  1 weeks back

                                                  You are one of my favorite people on Youtube! Always so real and pretty :)

                                                  • Gillian Elizabeth
                                                    Gillian Elizabeth  1 weeks back

                                                    8:30 is so relatable

                                                    • Cheypotato
                                                      Cheypotato  1 weeks back

                                                      Hearing you talk about your sister really hit hard, I myself am going to try and get help soon for an ED.
                                                      Love ya ash and thank you for being open about things like this ❤️

                                                      • muthia hanifah
                                                        muthia hanifah  1 weeks back

                                                        I loved you!!!

                                                        • muthia hanifah
                                                          muthia hanifah  1 weeks back

                                                          I really want to meet you...but i know it was just my dream

                                                          • Stefane Sheryniele
                                                            Stefane Sheryniele  2 weeks back

                                                            As I'm watching this, "altering my clothes while bledding out of my vagina 🤠" is playing up next LOL I can't 🤣

                                                            • Sunshine in Autumn
                                                              Sunshine in Autumn  2 weeks back

                                                              I started following Ashley because her voice reminded me of mine... Her voice is so cute that it makes me feel better about something that used to be an insecurity.

                                                              • Katarzyna
                                                                Katarzyna  2 weeks back

                                                                'Nobody called you ugly' BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT UGLY AND NEVER WERE!!! :) You are pretty, attractive, intelligent and wise.

                                                                • Alexis Marie
                                                                  Alexis Marie  2 weeks back

                                                                  my fam and i do take off our shoes before entering our apartment

                                                                  • murun
                                                                    murun  2 weeks back

                                                                    I wish she never cut her bangs...

                                                                    • Lemons W Sushi
                                                                      Lemons W Sushi  2 weeks back

                                                                      Dude. Literally while I was shopping for candy, the cashier said, "You eat so much candy and you're so skinny, I'm jealous!" Obviously it was a joke but I was so fucking conscious. I was like, "Haha yeah... metabolism......" It made me feel so bad. If you feel like making that joke to someone else, don't. Please.

                                                                      • kenzie. jade
                                                                        kenzie. jade  2 weeks back

                                                                        omg every time you cry i seriously tear up bad. bc u seem like u hardly ever cry bc youre so emotionally strong. gets me everytime. the story about your sister is really eye opening in a society that romanticizes eating disorders online :'(

                                                                        • Love & Power
                                                                          Love & Power  2 weeks back


                                                                          • Jixie Dye
                                                                            Jixie Dye  2 weeks back

                                                                            You know what, every time I see you I just wish I had a friend like you. I know you said you don't have many friends but if ever you need one, you got me. I'm so sorry about your sister. I bet you'd be so fun to hang out with though. I live in the UK but still, would be fun to skype you. Gosh you're fab.

                                                                            • Viviana Tudora
                                                                              Viviana Tudora  2 weeks back

                                                                              Editing Ashely is so effortlessly stilish 😍
                                                                              1 year late but still wanted to say that

                                                                              • Jeslin
                                                                                Jeslin  2 weeks back

                                                                                i think you are a lovely person. i haven't been following you for a long time, ( prolly 2 months ago) and i don't watch all of your videos but i think you're so genuine. i can't believe there are still people writing mean stuff like that but i also hope you don't let any of that get to you.

                                                                                • Ella Jaskulowska
                                                                                  Ella Jaskulowska  2 weeks back

                                                                                  For a minute I thought you may be Russian because you take the shoes off inside like we Slavs do!

                                                                                  • Megan
                                                                                    Megan  2 weeks back

                                                                                    As a young mother, I can say I was completely like you before I had a child. I didn’t like babies, I thought they were annoying, messy and gross cause drool and stuff. And I do agree with your statement that they are closer to pets than to people it’s cause they’re still untamed humans. They’re closest to prehistoric humans and not to mention they’re babies to they haven’t a clue what’s going on. Like animals they go off instinct. That being said now that I have a child I enjoy babies more, naturally mostly mine lol. I feel more sympathy for babies because they are just clueless and helpless little people. I’m not saying you will like babies if you ever have one, but you might surprise yourself in the future. Btw I’m about the same age as you and have an infant and it’s very difficult and stressful, I won’t lie. Another thing you said that I can completely relate to and I think a lot of us can is that yes sometimes we feel super happy and confident and then other days our depression or depressed feelings get to us and we just feel terrible and sad. Growing up is difficult, life is hard and as you said life is messy. You’re doing an incredible job from what I can tell and I encourage you to keep on being you and keep going when things get tough. Cheers to you 🥂

                                                                                    • Skylar Viñeza
                                                                                      Skylar Viñeza  2 weeks back

                                                                                      Ashley: I hate Pinterest
                                                                                      Me: *_Offended noises_*

                                                                                      • Layla Smith
                                                                                        Layla Smith  3 weeks back

                                                                                        ): when she got sad that made me sad):

                                                                                        • Jade Lescure
                                                                                          Jade Lescure  3 weeks back

                                                                                          can we have a 1hour long video of ashley just rambling about stuff lol i’d watch the heck out of it

                                                                                          • Sorcha Ní Pheadair
                                                                                            Sorcha Ní Pheadair  3 weeks back

                                                                                            Never noticed your lisp until that question now I cannot stop hearing it

                                                                                            • tanjina monika
                                                                                              tanjina monika  3 weeks back

                                                                                              U r one of my most favorite YouTuber. Most of the time i come to watch ur video the way u talk nd for ur beautiful attitude.

                                                                                              • Leemythic
                                                                                                Leemythic  3 weeks back

                                                                                                Im completely sure that you have a virgo moon or a virgo rising😬👀. I can feel the neuroticism, OCD, and anxiety. Ps i would know bc i have a mars in virgo🌾

                                                                                                • Alex Wyler
                                                                                                  Alex Wyler  3 weeks back

                                                                                                  where did you get your watch?