How I Left My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend

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  • Published: 07 December 2018
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    - Tea Consent by Blue Seat Studios
    https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8

    - The Vast Majority of Perpetrators Will Not Go to Jail or Prison
    https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system

    - Why do people stay in abusive relationships?
    https://www.gulfbend.org/poc/view_doc.php?type=doc&id=8483&cn=2

    ▶AM I BEING ABUSED?
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    https://www.loveisrespect.org/is-this-abuse/
    https://www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/

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Comments • 38 220

  • Ink Demon
    Ink Demon  7 hours back

    I feel bad for you.

    1 like = 1 prayer for her to forget

    • thetwinblade
      thetwinblade  8 hours back

      Haris: "I'm gonna kill myself..."
      Me: "NO WAIT!"
      Me: *grabs camera*
      Me: "All good!"

      • Julio Angel F R
        Julio Angel F R  11 hours back

        Oh shit

        • Acutesquash 8381
          Acutesquash 8381  13 hours back

          Haris = 🗑

          • darkflame728
            darkflame728  15 hours back

            Wow. Every fiber of my being wants to kill this Harris guy. Violently.

            • Rohan Leonard
              Rohan Leonard  15 hours back

              6:15 gay ?

              • Jeremy Jackson
                Jeremy Jackson  17 hours back

                been over a year... dayum

                • Joy Cloud
                  Joy Cloud  18 hours back

                  Oh my gof

                  • DoritoMudkip 64
                    DoritoMudkip 64  18 hours back

                    I'm not buying the rape statistics you put on screen...


                    Just sayin'.

                    • Pixie Pop
                      Pixie Pop  10 hours back

                      This happened way more than you think. But i cant blame you for not believing her. People say this stuff for attention (not saying this happened) but i highly doubt she'll go though a super Detailed story just for views.

                  • DoritoMudkip 64
                    DoritoMudkip 64  18 hours back

                    I've been through a similar problem.

                    • IcedCoffee
                      IcedCoffee  1 days back

                      Him: "I'll kill myself"
                      Me:




                      *JUST DO IT*

                      • Pop ZZ4
                        Pop ZZ4  1 days back

                        harris =r/neckbeards

                        • Suzy Blue
                          Suzy Blue  1 days back

                          I don’t know if this is just me, but from all the stuff Harris would do to you illy, I’d let him kill himself.

                          • Polska in space
                            Polska in space  2 days back

                            If you were the judge for his case, what would you do?
                            I personally would sentence him to death.

                            • Hanzo's Fat Nuts
                              Hanzo's Fat Nuts  2 days back

                              Why is there so many dislikes? I get that some people view dislikes differently but bad

                              • Gabbie B
                                Gabbie B  2 days back

                                If someone asked for nudes from me i would've put on my winter gear find a mirror hold up my middle finger take a picture send it to that person block him show my parents and report to police. But i didn't expirience this so i can't say anything. If only it would be that easy for those who did expierience these situations.

                                • Unknown Explorers
                                  Unknown Explorers  2 days back

                                  He looks like Thanos

                                  • Jared Chua
                                    Jared Chua  2 days back

                                    Haris to hell
                                    Haris to hell
                                    Haris to hell
                                    Haris to hell

                                    • Shiro Blueberry
                                      Shiro Blueberry  2 days back

                                      You’re so strong for sharing this. I’m so glad you’re not in that anymore. Sadly there are more people like this in the world

                                      • bunnii
                                        bunnii  2 days back

                                        can yall stop using illy's abuse for likes? its sick and uncalled for..

                                        • Luisa Cruz-Pedraza
                                          Luisa Cruz-Pedraza  2 days back

                                          Is she Alex clark's sister

                                          • Julls
                                            Julls  3 days back

                                            10:45 I know how this feels. When I was 16 I called the police to report about a phone number that was making some really weird calls to my cellphone. The officer told me that since I was underage I couldn't call the police to make a report and they did nothing about it.

                                            • venom xxx
                                              venom xxx  3 days back

                                              bro polic need to think about this stuff

                                              • Julian Mandujano
                                                Julian Mandujano  3 days back

                                                Was it UCLA

                                                • hey at least I tried
                                                  hey at least I tried  3 days back

                                                  MY BIRTHDAY IS ON FEBRUARY 5TH I AM SO SO SORRY 😭

                                                  • Kasey Butcher
                                                    Kasey Butcher  3 days back

                                                    People like Harris deserve to rot slowly in a prison. Alone. With no contact with anyone.

                                                    • Alina Lytvynchuk
                                                      Alina Lytvynchuk  3 days back

                                                      U are my little Cinnamon rollllllllllll be careful holy potato!

                                                      • Alina Lytvynchuk
                                                        Alina Lytvynchuk  3 days back

                                                        I don't like that section of the mall me: crap

                                                        • GalaxyDestroyer321
                                                          GalaxyDestroyer321  3 days back

                                                          Really REALLY hate the fact that this guy isn't in jail

                                                          • Minerva Salazar
                                                            Minerva Salazar  3 days back

                                                            I would go to the police. I would be scared out of my mind, but I would do it.

                                                            He's a terrible kisser. And thats the tea sis!
                                                            Me: wow so optimistic for something so traumatizing.

                                                          • Micah Harris
                                                            Micah Harris  3 days back

                                                            I’m not Harris I’m a girl Harris is my last name!!!

                                                            • Sue Animates
                                                              Sue Animates  4 days back

                                                              You should get him a piano!

                                                              *THROWN TO THE FACE THAT IS*

                                                              • Naomi Nieves
                                                                Naomi Nieves  4 days back

                                                                It’s no longer no means no it’s yes means yes because if a girl says idk or maybe or NOO then it doesn’t mean yes

                                                                • Armani Gayle
                                                                  Armani Gayle  4 days back

                                                                  Yo where u said u learnt storytime animations? I wanna learn to do this thing too sooooo bad

                                                                  • Mathias Green Tjønndal

                                                                    When he texted die you should have just said 'does it look like i care?'

                                                                    • Lincøln
                                                                      Lincøln  4 days back

                                                                      When i saw this 2:42 Harris im never gonna grow up to be like you just pause and look

                                                                      • Brendan Stokes
                                                                        Brendan Stokes  4 days back

                                                                        Harris:I’m going to kill myself
                                                                        Me: *NO* *BALLS* *YOU* *WON’T*

                                                                        • Fern Cruz
                                                                          Fern Cruz  4 days back

                                                                          Im so sorry for you 😭😭😭😭😭

                                                                          • Peyton N Stencell
                                                                            Peyton N Stencell  4 days back

                                                                            I’m so sorry you had to go through this I hope you are feeling better

                                                                            • the maple tree 23
                                                                              the maple tree 23  4 days back

                                                                              Go watch sr Pelo every animation youtuber ever

                                                                              • Valeria Sanchez
                                                                                Valeria Sanchez  5 days back

                                                                                Now I tell my sister to have pepper spray on her. JUST IN CASE

                                                                                • Cat kid Kuhn
                                                                                  Cat kid Kuhn  5 days back

                                                                                  Lissa deserves one million times better than that juvenile nerd green bean Harris we love you lissa hopefully no one else has that happen to them.thank god your still alive to help others 🙏🏻

                                                                                  • Mute Kid
                                                                                    Mute Kid  5 days back

                                                                                    "I talk a lot of shit for someone who can barely hold a gallon of milk."

                                                                                    • Yeetus da fetus
                                                                                      Yeetus da fetus  5 days back

                                                                                      Aight where he at if he near L.A I’ll get em

                                                                                      • Fayyadh Mahali
                                                                                        Fayyadh Mahali  5 days back

                                                                                        Every girl who meet her, please give a hug from me. T T

                                                                                        • FNaF Plushies
                                                                                          FNaF Plushies  5 days back

                                                                                          This is my first time watching this I’m so sorry for you

                                                                                          • Hiddenpents
                                                                                            Hiddenpents  5 days back

                                                                                            I am so happy to know this story i really used to think that girl's just lie must of the time and that police are there for you every time you change my point of view thank u and i hope nothing bad like this Will ever happen to someone i know

                                                                                            • Itz Jane
                                                                                              Itz Jane  5 days back

                                                                                              Me realizing there first date was on my 5th birthday:🙃😬😬😬😬😶hee