7 Signs He's Just Not That Into You

  • Published: 13 April 2017
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    You know that feeling when you're dating someone, but it kind of feels one-sided?

    Like maybe, you're more into it than he is?

    It's frustrating, right?! Because when he's sending you mixed signals, you're left standing there thinking...Does he like me or what?!

    This week, I made a video for you revealing 7 signs he's just not that into you." And this is important to recognize because your wonderful man, the one that's out there looking for the unique, amazing, beautiful, you is going to have a lot harder time finding you if his space is filled with some guy who's only half in it. MOVE ON OVER BUSTER!

    Please post a comment on this video... I'd love to hear your thoughts about this topic!



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Comments • 1 269

  • Mathew Boggs
    Mathew Boggs   3 years back

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    • Rebecca Butler
      Rebecca Butler  4 months back

      Hi Mathew just watched 7 signs he's not into you that what if you been with someone for few years how can u tell he's fallen out of love with you how do you know for sure many thanks rebecca butler

    • Angela Taylor
      Angela Taylor  9 months back

      @Kritika Bansal thats me too, with pretty much everyone. maybe I'm just too much of a loner? lol

    • Angela Taylor
      Angela Taylor  9 months back

      @Sharifa Sharifa lol...me too. :'/

    • Jessica Flesher
      Jessica Flesher  1 years back

      Mathew Boggs is there away to have one on one with you ? To ask questions?

    • shana Burch
      shana Burch  1 years back

      Mathew Boggs i need help how do we get advice from you.

  • Alasoadura Mosopefoluwa

    Omg I was in a relationship that the guy did all seven, I which u didn't this 4yrs ago...had to dump him but always felt guilt coz he came crying to get me back.... Thank God I said no.

    • Cynthia Rose
      Cynthia Rose  1 weeks back

      No sleep overs
      No friend mingling
      No family visits
      No cosy texts

      Omg am i a fuckboy?

      • selena
        selena  1 weeks back

        Oh f*ck 😂🤦‍♀️

        • Susan Rocheny
          Susan Rocheny  2 weeks back

          Just leave it don't respond to them .it just not worth it,we don't like be lead on ,so, don't lead them on. Be the better person.!

          • all3ykat79
            all3ykat79  3 weeks back

            I must remember to watch this every time he contacts me.

            • Miss Kia
              Miss Kia  3 weeks back

              My mother always told me this from young let a man show you his action not what he saying then u will know if he into you

              • Ruby
                Ruby  3 weeks back

                Thanks so much Matt, you’re awesome!

                • Sofía Cuevas
                  Sofía Cuevas  4 weeks back

                  Not putting much interest in conversations. Short answers.

                  • JaNet MAE
                    JaNet MAE  1 months back

                    Thank you.. 😕

                    • JaNet MAE
                      JaNet MAE  1 months back

                      Matt .. can u do a video on the long distance relationship and you see the person twice a month but he says all these things I haven't seen none of them know when I get upset and I call him out he changes it starts stepping up and then he backs down again it's like a pattern I need to know if he really cares are just leading me on can you do a video on long-distance relationships?

                  • artcutie1995
                    artcutie1995  1 months back

                    You know, thank you for this. I think it’s finally time to give up on this guy.

                    • SplitCity
                      SplitCity  1 months back

                      Most of these are bs. Im higly attracted to a girl and still do most of the things he mentioned because I dont want to make things awkward...

                      • BESSIE FULLER
                        BESSIE FULLER  1 months back

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                        • Anna Si
                          Anna Si  1 months back

                          I'm a woman and I've done these

                          • Tina Frenzel
                            Tina Frenzel  1 months back

                            I have 4 out of 7 and I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. He always seems very distracted. Always seems to have something to do and I am feeling left out. He loves to talk about himself and when I am speaking to him he sometimes even pops his earphones in or acts annoyed...
                            Any advises?

                            • Maria Mitic
                              Maria Mitic  2 months back

                              You are so Wright
                              Need to tell did of the bitch

                              • Laureen A
                                Laureen A  2 months back

                                If You feel disappointed, upset after meeting him. Somehow dis balace thats mean it's time for make distance

                                • Shruti Randive
                                  Shruti Randive  2 months back

                                  Why dont u just say he is a f***boi, instead of listing out all these reasons😂😂😂😂😂 cause you are describing exactly that

                                  • Aussie Survivor
                                    Aussie Survivor  2 months back

                                    recently got a planned date cancelled was told he was to sick, then he goes away to the city the very next day for a week ! wtf... obviously not that sick

                                    • Joy
                                      Joy  2 months back

                                      Shame I didn’t know your videos Matt before I let myself get married to this guy. 🙄well, I know now!;)

                                      • Nenita Jones
                                        Nenita Jones  2 months back

                                        what would u do if a man tells you he didnt want a romantic way but just friend? well here what i said to him im glad that you were honest..so we both donf waste time to each other..

                                        • Janelle WestCoast
                                          Janelle WestCoast  2 months back

                                          when im not into someone i reschedule over and over and OVER. Or ill bail last minute.

                                          • Yun Yun
                                            Yun Yun  2 months back

                                            When I am not into someone I will tell him directly. I don’t have so much time to waste. But if I want to use that person to get over someone, I would reply his messages and try to keep in touch. But when he wants to push things forward I will find an excuse. Sometimes the excuse seems so lame I can’t even buy it and i judge those who let me go with it.

                                            • lynzkie26 babe
                                              lynzkie26 babe  2 months back

                                              Omg the 7 😭😭

                                              • Bree
                                                Bree  2 months back

                                                If you have to ask - he probably isn’t!

                                                • Whitney Rhodes
                                                  Whitney Rhodes  2 months back

                                                  This is my first time running across one of your vids and I thoroughly enjoyed it! You really touched on things that aren’t as “obvious” as the things most “motivators” mention. My issue is separating overthinking from intuition. I’ve always followed my gut by it seems like it tells me something wrong about EVERY guy which may be the case but it doesn’t leave me much hope lol! Also I’m in a situation with a male friend of 7 years who’s showcasing some of the things you mentioned by I don’t know if he’s confused or just not interested in being more than friends and if he is confused is that a definite sign of lack of interest? I hope you see this because I rarely leave comments but I really related to your vid! 😃😊

                                                  • Karen D
                                                    Karen D  3 months back

                                                    This has helped. I just stopped being available to a guy I have been dating who displays these traits. Even though he calls every night and we see each other every weekend, it's all about him, and he's just not into me.

                                                    • Geneva Ballard
                                                      Geneva Ballard  3 months back

                                                      When man.is not into man have him leave you alone you feel it you pay attention they her treat or U.or just dumb to the fact right in your face

                                                      • Tetsi Doris
                                                        Tetsi Doris  3 months back

                                                        Ameeeeeeeeeen to clearing the way 😍🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌move bi....get out the way. Love you brother

                                                        • Viking Lass
                                                          Viking Lass  3 months back

                                                          I wouldn’t go out with them. I would never treat someone that way.

                                                          • Kat Tastrophe
                                                            Kat Tastrophe  3 months back

                                                            This video describes how a covert narccissist makes one feel less-than. This is how he gets his fuel.

                                                            • Swedishmutt
                                                              Swedishmutt  3 months back

                                                              My question is, does any of this apply when the guy is your own husband and not just a dating partner?

                                                              • claire johnson
                                                                claire johnson  3 months back

                                                                What ic he is a sub?

                                                                • Celine
                                                                  Celine  3 months back

                                                                  I’m being breadcrumbed, i think... but we work crazy hours so seeing and texting each other once a week on our days off just work 🤔🤔🤔

                                                                  • chocolate kisses
                                                                    chocolate kisses  3 months back

                                                                    LMAO WHY THE HELL AM I FINDING THIS NOW

                                                                    • miss sunshine
                                                                      miss sunshine  3 months back

                                                                      Easier said than done, how do you tell your heart, that he is not that into you?
                                                                      🤔 how do you deal with the ups and downs. I Mean he is Constanly hot and cold. It makes me so Sade and Hurt

                                                                      • Anna Nark Free from Stockport England

                                                                        One of the best i have heard on this subject. Right on x

                                                                        • Zair Dawn
                                                                          Zair Dawn  4 months back

                                                                          Can u make a video about men who never leave home or their state because the will miss their family, they love u but they are more like failure to launch. Plz explain what is going on and why

                                                                          • Zair Dawn
                                                                            Zair Dawn  4 months back

                                                                            EXACTLY WELL PUT THANKS FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO

                                                                            • Hawusia Kopkaewski
                                                                              Hawusia Kopkaewski  4 months back

                                                                              I don’t even wanna date no more lol

                                                                              • Monserrat Guzmán
                                                                                Monserrat Guzmán  4 months back

                                                                                When a man means NO... Is NO! Stop making castles un the air, and run away my friends!

                                                                                • Monserrat Guzmán
                                                                                  Monserrat Guzmán  4 months back

                                                                                  Información que cura.... ;)

                                                                                  • Dalia M
                                                                                    Dalia M  4 months back

                                                                                    Wow this guy is on point!

                                                                                    • Norma Loza
                                                                                      Norma Loza  4 months back

                                                                                      What if you are long distance . Never met yet .

                                                                                      • Birgit Tucek
                                                                                        Birgit Tucek  4 months back

                                                                                        When I am not that into someone, I am honest enough to say it and not start a relationship. Cause then it would end up just like explained in that video

                                                                                        • Maria Castillo
                                                                                          Maria Castillo  4 months back

                                                                                          Is too soon for a guy to ask you for showing your body

                                                                                          • Yo Uniqca
                                                                                            Yo Uniqca  4 months back

                                                                                            Yes I learnt my lesson it’s exactly that the first time I like somebody. He liked to talk about himself his ideals and so on. It was that validation seeking he wanted. Now when I met another guy, I realize that difference. He always want to know what I’m experiencing and explore the topic with me.

                                                                                            • djezeyria1
                                                                                              djezeyria1  4 months back

                                                                                              If I'm not into sb, I'm not interested in what he does or says, I don't call him. I don't miss him....