Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)

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  • Published: 23 October 2019
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    LYRICS

    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    You set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus
    Cause it wasn’t yours
    I saw the signs and I ignored it
    Rose colored glasses all distorted
    You set fire to my purpose
    And I let it burn
    You got off on the hurtin’
    When it wasn’t yours
    We’d always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me

    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    I gave my all and they all know it
    You tore me down and now it’s showing
    In two months you replaced us
    Like it was easy
    Made me think I deserved it
    In the thick of healing
    We’d always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me

    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    You set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus-

    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to hate you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah

    And now the chapter is closed and done
    And now it’s goodbye
    It’s goodbye for us

    Music video by Selena Gomez performing Lose You To Love Me. © 2019 Interscope Records
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Comments • 294 844

  • SelenaGomezVEVO
    SelenaGomezVEVO   3 months back

    This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.

  • isabel salguero
    isabel salguero  1 minutes back

    Your good to sing😘😘😍

    • ghofrane gharbi
      ghofrane gharbi  20 minutes back

      When i watch to this vedio i feel sad :(

      • Asiya K
        Asiya K  39 minutes back

        The best

        • Imane Ouziadi
          Imane Ouziadi  52 minutes back

          https://youtu.be/I__VwIFXaSg support my channel please

          • Elayne Alves
            Elayne Alves  1 hours back

            Um comentário em português pq não estou entendendo nenhum ☺️

            • luiz henrique luiz
              luiz henrique luiz  1 hours back

              Lindaaa 🇧🇷💖

              • Moisés Messias
                Moisés Messias  1 hours back

                Amazing song Selena!! God bless you, girl!! ❤❤❤

                • camille m
                  camille m  1 hours back

                  In my opinion this is one of her best songs by far i feel the emotions 😔

                  • Kattymie
                    Kattymie  1 hours back

                    No French subtitles whyyyy aigo 😭

                    • Wendy Jimenez
                      Wendy Jimenez  2 hours back

                      Omg ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

                      • David Ryan
                        David Ryan  2 hours back

                        Queen

                        • Gabri Fortunet
                          Gabri Fortunet  2 hours back

                          Sitting here feeling sad about a relationship I've never had um

                          • Reaper's END
                            Reaper's END  2 hours back

                            The Corona-virus has people dying to find wine for themselves.

                            The hang over is killer.

                            • David Campos
                              David Campos  2 hours back

                              Música linda 🇧🇷

                              • Reaper's END
                                Reaper's END  2 hours back

                                It had a cabbage head that flaked salt like dandruff from atop it, its eye was a pair of olives; one black olive, one green... The green olive cried red pimentos. A carrot dripping honey from it was its solution for a nose. There was no mouth. The cabbage head had asparagus tentacles that drape from its head, they were smothered in butter. The end of the asparagus caked in fermented molded parmesan cheese. It sat upon a chocolate syrup shredded ice berg lettuce plate plunging its asparagus tentacles about.

                                As it moved, salt fell onto the Italian dressing trail it left behind.

                                • Haley Parulski
                                  Haley Parulski  2 hours back

                                  If you know how she felt this song will make you cry.

                                  • 반실삼
                                    반실삼  2 hours back

                                    Now i use to love my self coz of this song ❤️

                                    I love you selena ❤️

                                    • •AnnXCookie•
                                      •AnnXCookie•  3 hours back

                                      I miss someone that doesnt deserve to be missed..

                                      • Shanice Ocasio
                                        Shanice Ocasio  3 hours back

                                        For those who've been abused mentally, verbally, physically, sexually abused in any form in a relationship, I advise to listen. From 1 dv survivor to another this song hits on a spiritual level. Selena Gomez I praise you for helping us through our issues not even knowing it. This song really does inspire you to be a better you for yourself and to love yourself 1st always

                                        • American Resistance
                                          American Resistance  3 hours back

                                          Killin it gorgeous 🥰

                                          • To Be Honest
                                            To Be Honest  3 hours back

                                            This song makes me want to travel back in time and tell my old self to appreciate my girlfriend and start treating her the way she should be treated instead of taking advantage she’s gonna be fed up with it eventually and sooner than later I’ll lose her and I’ll lose myself and be left behind battling my demons alone while she stuck with me through toxic air and we there for me while my mind was too foggy to acknowledge it. I want to tell my old self to treat females like as if it’s your mother/Sister/Aunt/Cousin . Show her the real meaning behind true love instead of making her have to drift away from you in order to heal herself cause of the damage I caused .

                                            • Sara of Isla
                                              Sara of Isla  3 hours back

                                              *"i needed to hate you to love me"* 
                                              *"in two months you replaced us"*
                                              *“i saw the signs and i ignored it“*

                                              ugh this song hits you right in the feels💔
                                              i made a cover of it, would love for you to check it out if you have a minute

                                              • nadiakamo o
                                                nadiakamo o  3 hours back

                                                I have hear this and I start missing Justin bieber 😍😂😂😂😂❤️❤️

                                                • kieza FOX
                                                  kieza FOX  3 hours back

                                                  Linda de mais vc princesa 😊

                                                  • Mei Lee
                                                    Mei Lee  3 hours back

                                                    I thought the look over the shoulder meant that she had to constantly be on guard cause he was gonna hurt her again

                                                    • Lonely Wolf
                                                      Lonely Wolf  3 hours back

                                                      https://youtu.be/1a0yxHo116w

                                                      • Biagio Caccia
                                                        Biagio Caccia  3 hours back

                                                        ❤❤🖤🖤

                                                        • Nancy Lopez
                                                          Nancy Lopez  4 hours back

                                                          Love

                                                          • Btstaekook4life Purple
                                                            Btstaekook4life Purple  4 hours back

                                                            Hi it okay

                                                            • yoryo
                                                              yoryo  4 hours back

                                                              ❤️❤️❤️😭Goddess

                                                              • Amoni Sedoni
                                                                Amoni Sedoni  4 hours back

                                                                This is Literally on Repeat

                                                                • Pidipi
                                                                  Pidipi  4 hours back

                                                                  No matter how hard it is there is always hope.
                                                                  Also remember to love your self no matter who you are and the ones around and who cares about you even if they hurt you sometimes.

                                                                  • ASMR Sleepy Sheeps
                                                                    ASMR Sleepy Sheeps  4 hours back

                                                                    Emotional abuse is hard to detect. Not easy to see. Takes weeks, months, years to realise what’s happened. It wrecks you. But still, it is so hard to see. First step is to be aware that you’ve been a victim. It sucks but from here on you can work your way up and heal. Thanks to Selena, to share with us, what so many of us had been going through

                                                                    • Yanina Raquel Gonzalez
                                                                      Yanina Raquel Gonzalez  5 hours back

                                                                      Esta mujer es tan jodidamente fuerte...

                                                                      • Dagmar Timková
                                                                        Dagmar Timková  5 hours back

                                                                        Queen is back💜

                                                                        • Jj Ss
                                                                          Jj Ss  5 hours back

                                                                          Im listening to love to lose kobi rip man

                                                                          • Sara Bastos
                                                                            Sara Bastos  5 hours back

                                                                            Que bom que superou, espero que seja feliz!

                                                                            • C. Dynamo
                                                                              C. Dynamo  5 hours back

                                                                              *OMG THIS IS JUST SO BEAUTIFUL AND MAGNIFICENT 🙌🏻👌🏻*

                                                                              I know I’m late but this is the first time I heard this, I don’t regret one moment.

                                                                              • sofia danai servou
                                                                                sofia danai servou  5 hours back

                                                                                I can feel that

                                                                                • keya lancaster
                                                                                  keya lancaster  5 hours back

                                                                                  I'm in love with this song more than I'm in love with me this song Hits hread 😍 add my snap keyalancaster 😗

                                                                                  • May Silva
                                                                                    May Silva  6 hours back

                                                                                    Rainha❤❤❤❤

                                                                                    • Sony
                                                                                      Sony  6 hours back

                                                                                      I really like this song and I think it can hit home with a lot of us. I think Justin and Selena both had some mental issues back then and I am glad that they are both healing. But I hope all this is over now and they can each go on peacefully as I am sure a lot of this is not doing Much good in Justin‘s marriage and relationship with his wife. It’s time to Move on For everyone. Great song and great words though…

                                                                                      • m e m e Wala L a u n d a

                                                                                        We'd always go into blindly😊😔

                                                                                        • m e m e Wala L a u n d a

                                                                                          when you really love her but she cheatin on you it remind me #We'd always going into blindly, this line hit me so hard😶

                                                                                          • 1000 Jose
                                                                                            1000 Jose  6 hours back

                                                                                            I am Mexican and I like how Selena Gomez sings

                                                                                            • Gryfinndor
                                                                                              Gryfinndor  6 hours back

                                                                                              Everything could be different stupid Justin

                                                                                              • Kayla Perez
                                                                                                Kayla Perez  6 hours back

                                                                                                This song made me realize so much ! Two days ago I found my husband with another women at the park , while my kids were in the car . I sat there in the car crying and crying but realIzed it wasn’t worth it . I’m so much more speacial then that , I deserve the best. He was the only provider in our home and I’m in school full time . As much as I know I’m going to struggle financially and emotionally, this is the right thing to do . I must love myself !!

                                                                                                • Agnese 22
                                                                                                  Agnese 22  6 hours back

                                                                                                  Kayla Perez i am soo sorry....you have to be proud for who you are 💖